I ask you, if you don't get married, what are you going to do?

remain single?

how has that been?

are you doing anything interesting by yourself ?
Do you feel that your circle of friends are reducing?
Do you feel the need to be with someone or share your life with someone?
or are you contended being by yourself? You like doing things by yourself?

everything in life is a risk. Nothing is perfect. If you want to be in a relationship and share your life, there are risks. You may ended up with wrong partner. Or the partner you believe is the one for you but she doesn't feel the same way and leave you.

when i was single, I remembered one forumer in K told me here, that he enjoys his single life by driving somewhere far away, and take his camera and take pictures.

I also did the same thing, I drove my car, to some where, then went to a chinese restaurant to try the food, then unhook my bicycle from my parked car and cycled around the place.

I remembered when I visited London by myself, I took a morning walk, and walk and walk as far as I could. I saw some interesting boats with people living inside berthed by the london river, I also saw some port equipment back in the 1900s that the London municipal council painted and preserved them like a museum, I walked past a very interesting condo design, I wondered how that bulding could stand on its on based on the design. Then it dawned on me, I wished I had someone to talk to about what I was thinking. I just walked around and snapped the photo with my phone. I wish I could take the photo with someone next to me.

Well those were my single days.

About having regrets on my marriage life? No. Because I lived a very long time being single before settling down. I already enjoyed my single life and have enough of it.

I am reminded of this single guy who loves to travel by himself.

He recently went to India, he took 500 pictures of himself and uploaded it into his facebook.

His previous travel was to East Europe, he also took 500 pictures of himself n uploaded into his facebook

that is not my taste

that is why I asked TS the questions

He does not strike me as a guy who loves to do things by himself.

So whatever you stand for is up to you, I am just facilitating what TS wants.

I think your questions really hit home with me. Probably subconsciously, I have been feeling that I am not doing anything interesting by myself and the circle of friends remain stagnant.

This is the reply I got from TS.

what r u trying to talk kok here?

I am not speculating.