consider pick up badminton, cycling, car exhibition or TT session, basically those outdoor activities... you dont go out, you wont meet single guys/ fak bois..

For badminton, there is alot of group out there where you can join and meet new people ( try rovo or xiaohongshu, alot of badminton meetup ) ... need some time and effort, but definitely work for meeting people.

and because you are late 30s, you should consider those guys who are younger than you too, maybe 3-4 years.. Your asset is your look, so put it to good use.. oh and try hide your age when you social, so hopefully someone will take the bait.. thereafter when you disclose your age, is too late for them not to accept you.

btw, you born in 88? 88 is mid 30s lah... still ok ler...

This post has been edited by siew14: Jan 31 2024, 11:42 PM

i think the main issue is if the person is 34 and not realising time is running out, thats the main problem imo

well, i mean if the person is a social butterfly, then yeah. why not, i can understand that... if is those who always stay at home, then either the person is really enjoying his/her life and dont feel lonely, or should really wake up do something about it.

and i feel woman who is above 30s should start consider someone who is younger to them by few years already, to have more options... and early 30s guy, usually wouldnt mind few years above them la...