This happens to everybody, especially after a long period of living with each other. That's why sex toys can be helpful in this situation. Many people think that sex toys are only for perverts, but it's not like this. Sometimes, sex toys can save marriages. For instance, my wife and I also had been feeling the routine, so to spice things up, we purchased blowjob toys. And to be honest, these toys shook things up because now we enjoy having sex like we used to back in the day.