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Tips for Chinese funeral
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SUSCincai lar
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Dec 29 2023, 12:42 PM
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if got relative or friend know any funeral organiser then let them do lor,... if not, also no worry,.. there's some salesman lurking around hospital,.. they will approach u the moment your dad died,..
i kena b4,. when my dad died,.. within minutes got salesman approach me liao,.. i didn't scold them off, i just told them let me calm myself on the news 1st,.. b4 looking at their package,.. actually their price just around there depending how big u want funeral be,..
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Dec 29 2023, 12:48 PM
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QUOTE(DarkNite @ Dec 29 2023, 12:18 PM) Taoist 2-3 times the price of Buddhist. These days many Chinese opt for simple Buddhist. And at funeral parlor. No need over night jaga. Less stressful for all. Funeral shop networking is the bestest in the world. Within 1 - 2 hour, da mai! yup,.. taoist one more complicated,.. buddhist one more cincai,.. but not 2x3 times lar,.. just a little bit expensive only depend on the package,.. special order will be add on price,.. and funeral parlor easier,.. b'cos save the the hassle to set up b4 the funeral and clean up after,.. This post has been edited by Cincai lar: Dec 29 2023, 12:48 PM
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Dec 29 2023, 01:01 PM
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QUOTE(Doomsday @ Dec 29 2023, 12:52 PM) if taoist custom,.. must jaga the body and constantly burn paper money piece by piece,..normally done by kids by shift schedule,.. also must make sure the oil lamp got enough oil, won;t burned out,..
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Dec 29 2023, 01:03 PM
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QUOTE(Lancer07 @ Dec 29 2023, 12:47 PM) Condolences to you and your family Usually agents will approach you quickly in hospital, but do take time to calm down first and consider later not yet die lar,.. maybe his father will survived ??...
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Dec 29 2023, 01:33 PM
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QUOTE(skyblack4492 @ Dec 29 2023, 01:27 PM) But house usually ade God statue. Hantu can masuk kacau? if doing funeral at home,.. the house worship shrine must be covered ,.. dead family also ghost,.. they will come back on the 7th day,.. but i waited for my dad on the 7th day,.. tarak come back and give me lottery numbers also,..
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Dec 29 2023, 01:36 PM
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QUOTE(misaka @ Dec 29 2023, 01:31 PM) My father after passaway at icu got ppl from nirvana call hospital ppl got nirvana contract punya hospital staff got commission one lar,.. just inform their salesman which family got people just died,..
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Dec 29 2023, 01:57 PM
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QUOTE(hteekay @ Dec 29 2023, 01:53 PM) Mine was at Fook Look Siew KK there.. just use their service this month. RM5999 for the whole funeral ceremony. (100 cup drinks , 100 有心 packs to give out, 3 days on the funeral parlour place for friends and family to go pay respect, the casket, cremation service and and ash urn included) as for place to put the urn. We bought one place for RM5999 + RM380++ (paid one time only, no need to pay maintenance fee every year or month). So all in all it's around RM12k in kl/kv,.. condominium for ash urn around rm15k-30k liao,..
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Dec 29 2023, 04:05 PM
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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Dec 29 2023, 02:13 PM) I thought he say 7th day dad ghost want to come back, so must still cover statue face? after finish funeral,.. the deceased name already put into ancestral tablet,.. means already registered in Hell as family,... Gods already know they are family,..
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Dec 29 2023, 04:11 PM
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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Dec 29 2023, 04:07 PM) All taoists go to hell you mean? How to go to heaven like the gods? hell = heaven,.. it's meant another realm,.. else why people called hell money,.. but content written heaven bank ,..
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Dec 29 2023, 08:35 PM
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QUOTE(tatmeng @ Dec 29 2023, 05:47 PM) Thanks everyone for the advice and tips. Spoken with my mother. Prefer Buddhist rite as simpler and not many bilibala things. Will do it at funeral parlour as my house rather small and neighbours all malays. Best don’t disturb neighbours and I also don’t like many people come to my house. Ok basically will wait for the funeral parlours people to approach me. Now I will focus taking care of the livings, like my mother. Rather much I can do for my father already. Can let my siblings take care of him. I’ve done my best so already passed away today ???... RIP,..
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Dec 30 2023, 12:34 PM
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QUOTE(debonairs91 @ Dec 29 2023, 04:21 PM) How much executor charge? executor is just the authorised person to manage your will,.. the one who hold the surat kuasa,.. normally it's the deceased trusted family/relative/friends,.. last time my elder brother die,.. my younger brother is the executor,.. no charge,..it will be in the will who is the executor,... This post has been edited by Cincai lar: Dec 30 2023, 12:43 PM
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Dec 30 2023, 12:40 PM
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QUOTE(tatmeng @ Dec 29 2023, 10:48 PM) Thanks. Yea kinda already discussed with my siblings high level how to run it but still depends on me. Not much inheritance. Just want to make sure he doesn’t have any financial products under his own name. So far all joint owned with my bro and I don’t have any intend to get the that money. Just trying to contact his old friends and let them know that he is at his final stage got cars under his name ??.. got share stocks under his name ??.. got left any will ??... doesn't matter big money or small money,.. if no will,..Gov will gasak,..
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Dec 30 2023, 12:52 PM
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QUOTE(pipedream @ Dec 30 2023, 08:37 AM) just a tip bro, withdraw all the savings from your dads account ASAP, if not u will need to go through a lot of bili bala to withdraw it eg proof of inheritance la etc etc this,... i remember last time when my elder brother die,.. take 2 weeks plus to clear his saving account rm5k per day via ATM,.. i only got his ATM card with password,.. didn't get his online username and password,..
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