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 If your wife mengandung down syndrome baby, U abort the baby?

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yhtan
post Dec 11 2023, 09:32 AM

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QUOTE(MPIK @ Dec 9 2023, 07:44 PM)
AFAIK, both down syndrome and autism will bring parents and kids disaster for life. I might say nightmares hunting you for life.

Your life as couples will be broken for life.
Your life as parents will be broken for life.
Your career and hobbies will be end road.
You will have sleepness nights for the rest of your life.
Both husband and wife couldn't travel abroad and leave your child alone at home even if your child reaches 18.
Both mum and dad will need to take care of your kid for the rest of your life even during your retirement life as your kid is unable to take care of himself/herself
Results in more and more arguments between child, parents, spouse, parents-in-law etc
Results in hate more than love between parents and your child.
The worst part is... your kid doesn't even know you are his dad/mum even if your kid matures. THINK ABOUT IT

Basically is like taking care of a very ill patient on bed for the rest of your life without having any time for rests.

You will eventually think that if can turn back time, I rather not having any child or even getting married in the first place.
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it will ruin your life, i've seen on my mum's friend family, until age 60+ still has to take care of their downy children which age 30+, unable to travel like normal people, cannot enjoy retirement life, has to hire a filipino maid to take care of the children.
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post Dec 11 2023, 11:08 AM

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QUOTE(Ayambetul @ Dec 11 2023, 09:01 AM)
No diff

Ktard oledi fap the child into toilet daily
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Already grow in the fetus

Very different
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post Dec 11 2023, 11:17 AM

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QUOTE(yhtan @ Dec 11 2023, 09:32 AM)
it will ruin your life, i've seen on my mum's friend family, until age 60+ still has to take care of their downy children which age 30+, unable to travel like normal people, cannot enjoy retirement life, has to hire a filipino maid to take care of the children.
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U got ask them if given the choice which would they prefer? For all you know they are very happy and satisfied.

Special kids have their pros and cons also.
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post Dec 11 2023, 11:41 AM

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QUOTE(cms @ Dec 11 2023, 11:17 AM)
U got ask them if given the choice which would they prefer? For all you know they are very happy and satisfied.

Special kids have their pros and cons also.
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you are talking down yea... not no limbs / legs yea...
Lack of limbs/legs can claim alot of gov incentive... but down basically your life is tied... and must not died before the end of the baby
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post Dec 11 2023, 11:42 AM

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QUOTE(cms @ Dec 11 2023, 11:17 AM)
U got ask them if given the choice which would they prefer? For all you know they are very happy and satisfied.

Special kids have their pros and cons also.
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My mum did asked this question, the answer is both of them agree to abort, husband and wife did suffer major setback in the beginning, a lot of argument and effort to take care of the children.
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post Dec 11 2023, 11:53 AM

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now will say yes cause belum pregnant or whatever but when really pregnant time, will really think long and hard.
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post Dec 11 2023, 12:04 PM

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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM)
I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also?

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Yes abort
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post Dec 11 2023, 12:04 PM

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1st. most of those who have their baby down syndrome mostly aged woman around 35 and above
2nd. so it doesnt matter for them its a precious baby, they probably have been trying for years too
3rd. its a baby human anyway. no matter how deficient, a mother will love

now ask yourself if you've been taking care of a blind dog/cat. you bond for 9 months. sure taking care of it is difficult, they cannot see where to defecate or urinate, so are you going to kill that dog/cat because its blind?
if you are then i got nothing else to say
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post Dec 11 2023, 12:05 PM

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QUOTE(cms @ Dec 11 2023, 11:17 AM)
U got ask them if given the choice which would they prefer? For all you know they are very happy and satisfied.

Special kids have their pros and cons also.
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if down syndrome, got what pros?
if the kid age 40-50 but mental is age 5 only...what pros? hmm.gif
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post Dec 11 2023, 12:07 PM

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already aborted when I have past the age of 35. any woman over 35 should know the risk and abort too.
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post Dec 11 2023, 12:07 PM

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QUOTE(Pain4UrsinZ @ Dec 9 2023, 03:43 PM)
autism and down syndrome different

autism difficult to test and cannot abort
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Cannot do legally but can illegally
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post Dec 11 2023, 12:13 PM

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post Dec 11 2023, 12:13 PM

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QUOTE(Singh_Kalan @ Dec 9 2023, 07:30 PM)
When is elon musk going to come out with genetic engineered baby ??
BTW elon also autistic.  There goes a genius.  Maybe more....
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Autistic and adhd Ada spectrum. Some can fix some is very fucked up
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post Dec 11 2023, 12:23 PM

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QUOTE(M4A1 @ Dec 11 2023, 12:05 PM)
if down syndrome, got what pros?
if the kid age 40-50 but mental is age 5 only...what pros? hmm.gif
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Can go YouTube and FB where the parents share their daily activities with their special kids.

There is always two side of the coin, [B] like MCA vs DAP
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post Dec 11 2023, 12:23 PM

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Buddhists believe that life should not be destroyed, but they regard causing death as morally wrong only if the death is caused deliberately or by negligence. Traditional Buddhism rejects abortion because it involves the deliberate destroying of a life. Buddhists regard life as starting at conception


Not sure any opinions on the above, but say karma retribution is real and to Buddists abortion is akin to killing your own offspring (a sin that is very hard to erase), means multiplying such bad karma. To Buddhism, abortion is not about kindness and will halt any future reincarnations of the soul, which put the aborted into intense hatred towards the 'aborter'.
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post Dec 11 2023, 12:26 PM

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QUOTE(cms @ Dec 11 2023, 12:23 PM)
Can go YouTube and FB where the parents share their daily activities with their special kids.

There is always two side of the coin, [B] like MCA vs DAP
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those are when they parent are still young

like above shared
what if parent are age 90-100 (bed ridden)

1. who gonna take care the special kids?
2. the special kid got enough money and skill to support themselves ONLY? got job
i dun even talk about terbalik take care bed ridden parent. i doubt those down syndrome can even take care back the parent , drive around see doc and etc.

talk is easy...video is easy.
try real life baru tahu
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post Dec 11 2023, 12:34 PM

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possibility can do test by 10 weeks.. must do to prepare if u decide to go ahead so, next 7 months u can prepare..no right o wrong. alot of ppl abort baby everyday in MY.
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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM)
I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also?

Welcome saints and experienced parents to discuss
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Can detect.
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post Dec 11 2023, 12:43 PM

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I am pro-abortion.. Too bad it's illegal in Malaysia

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post Dec 11 2023, 01:11 PM

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Autism still acceptable lah, like how 50% of ktards are turbo autists but earn 20k celery
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