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TSgoingcrazy
post Nov 30 2023, 12:00 PM

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Thanks everyone for the replies.

I think I will confront her but i predicted that the outcome may not be good and i believe she'll go crazy, cause every time when i had argument with her, conlanfirm is she win even though it's her fault, im very tired on this, tell also die, dont tell also die, if dont tell i'll die, i feel very suffer now, cant sleep well, cant concentrate on doing my work and stuff.
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post Nov 30 2023, 12:09 PM

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QUOTE(goingcrazy @ Nov 30 2023, 12:00 PM)
Thanks everyone for the replies.

I think I will confront her but i predicted that the outcome may not be good and i believe she'll go crazy, cause every time when i had argument with her, conlanfirm is she win even though it's her fault, im very tired on this, tell also die, dont tell also die, if dont tell i'll die, i feel very suffer now, cant sleep well, cant concentrate on doing my work and stuff.
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It's okay. She wanna go crazy then let her lah, she lied to begin with. You're also not without any fault because you checked her phone without permission - own that up but stand your ground, she lied. Tell us the outcome later!
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post Dec 6 2023, 01:41 AM

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101% no pure friend!
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post Dec 6 2023, 08:31 AM

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QUOTE(goingcrazy @ Nov 30 2023, 12:00 PM)
Thanks everyone for the replies.

I think I will confront her but i predicted that the outcome may not be good and i believe she'll go crazy, cause every time when i had argument with her, conlanfirm is she win even though it's her fault, im very tired on this, tell also die, dont tell also die, if dont tell i'll die, i feel very suffer now, cant sleep well, cant concentrate on doing my work and stuff.
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1st time paktor and 1st girlfriend?
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post Dec 8 2023, 10:23 AM

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QUOTE(goingcrazy @ Nov 30 2023, 12:00 PM)
Thanks everyone for the replies.

I think I will confront her but i predicted that the outcome may not be good and i believe she'll go crazy, cause every time when i had argument with her, conlanfirm is she win even though it's her fault, im very tired on this, tell also die, dont tell also die, if dont tell i'll die, i feel very suffer now, cant sleep well, cant concentrate on doing my work and stuff.
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So many red flags with this girl. You deserve better and should not waste your life time with this time bomb and all the uncertainties. You are worthy, bro. Get out as soon as you can.
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post Dec 13 2023, 11:39 AM

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Defo a red flag
boyboycute
post Dec 24 2023, 11:50 AM

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Who said girl and boy cannot become good friends?

As long as they remember to wear protection , best friends forever
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post Dec 25 2023, 11:14 AM

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QUOTE(goingcrazy @ Nov 28 2023, 12:52 PM)
We know each other from playing online games, then we chat a lot and found each other have a lot of click & connection, so then we be together.

And she and the other guy, has even more click & connection than me, so then eventually they met up, this is what I guess.
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well she's repeating the same trend of what she did with you, and she's doing it with him now.

sounds like she is using the same modus operandi.

but seriously I don't know what is right for you.

if you keep quiet, the curiosity will almost explode in you. And if its really true, it may hit you like a freight train. I am not saying its real, but I could be wrong.

if you sound out to her, she may feel that you are controlling her and worst still she felt her trust violated because you are spying on her phone.

Maybe you should think how to bring it up to her, subtly? Choose your words wise when you talk to her. I am not sure how you gonna put it in words, how are you going to disclose that you found out she is talking to this guy? I mean, moment you said that, she may not like you prying into her phone.

I really don't know, but I think you gotta find a way to talk to her.

By the way, why are you in LDR with her? If you are around her, the relaitonship is much easier. If you both are long away, chances and temptations are high.
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post Dec 27 2023, 04:40 PM

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yorue in long distance that guy can meet her face to face, every girl wants that human connection and feel cared for, if being so far way and yorue unable to make her feel that way chances are she is having something with that guy, may not be lseeping together but definitely her emotional support since he is around and yorue not
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post Dec 28 2023, 01:52 PM

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my condolences to you. i was once in a similar situation ("the guy she tells you not to worry about" meme). it's better to bite the bullet and start the long mental recovery process.
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post Dec 30 2023, 06:55 AM

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Only really confident and self assured men can do it.

I've got very attractive female friends but I value our friendship much more. Sex is temporary. Social connections are life long
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post Jan 25 2024, 03:40 PM

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QUOTE(goingcrazy @ Nov 27 2023, 11:40 PM)
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i give you an honest answer. Yes and No

Yes even when i'm together with my ex-female colleague. she has a damn good body figure in which i am sure to concentrate on her body after each meeting/outings

No if she is a whale
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post Jan 25 2024, 09:09 PM

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For me there is no pure relationship between man and women, is all about how you control a relationship. My experience for once, when i date a girl from sugarbook, i really dont know that she had a bf, after dating end, i accidentally saw the name when her bf call her , that time only i realise she lied to his bf, after that i no more contact that girl.
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