Hey guys, a bit of context since people say I'm an unusual case. I was born in KL, a single child and early in my life my family moved to Terengganu and we live there for over 2 decades until I decided to moved back to Subang Jaya in 2019 where I used to live at as a kid. I thought that by moving back here it would be easier for me to meet people but then the pandemic happened and I've transitioned to a full time online business owner with little incentive to leave the house plus I'm also caring for my now sick parents. I'm an introvert and don't have many friends nor family and whenever I tell my close friends I'm looking for a women to chat and hang out with (they always assume or tease me that I'm looking to marry or have sex so I stopped bringing up the subject). My parents are mixed therefore I mostly speak English and despite being Malaysian, people have been asked me many times of my race and religion probably because I'm nondescript. Being an introvert, I am also camera shy so dating apps are something that makes me uncomfortable.

My question is, how do I meet women in Subang Jaya/KL? I tend to favor bookstores but I'm too chickenshit to approach women there and being an introvert I've never been to clubs or social events (I honestly don't know how). I do have a car and I rarely, if ever go to KL as I'd rather be watching over my parents plus I don't know where to go or what to do there, the most I've done is park in front of KLCC and took a photo at 9pm and drove back home, which is kind of pathetic now that I'm reading what I'm typing!

I've seen so-called pickup artists on Youtube that make it look so easy-- approaching women and asking for their number but I always felt like I'd probably creep them out! With such a small social circle, basically no family members and zero knowledge on what to do in Subang/KL, is all hope lost?