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carloz28
post Nov 18 2023, 02:29 PM

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Don’t even try those stunts from YouTube pick up artists with their cheesy pick up lines


Malaysia clubs is definitely not the place to apply them

Chances are, u will be treated like a weirdo. Just don’t try it.
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post Nov 18 2023, 04:42 PM

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QUOTE(thkent91 @ Nov 18 2023, 02:22 PM)
Why? You are in Business school right?
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School of Physical and Mathematical Sciences... tongue.gif

Lesson for all boys: if you intend to get married and you know your career/field does not have many girls available, it's best to start dating early.

No matter how introvert you are, go out with girls often (especially those you like) just after high school but before you enter university. Keep the connection tight-knit and close till you start dating/married.

Don't end up like me... now only regret... earn SGD, wanna spend MYR on my beloved girl(s), but all got boyfriend already...
Takudan
post Nov 18 2023, 08:36 PM

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QUOTE(kngun @ Nov 16 2023, 11:46 AM)
Your ONlY viable option in 2023 is Tinder for meeting woman. Learn how to take selfie pictures and write a good profile. Always remember be  probability rule in Tinder. Out of 100 likes, only 10 will like you back. Out of the 10, you can probably only meet 1 or 2 of them. It’s a numbers game in Tinder.

Good luck
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Nah bro, I heard from many that Tinder is for hookup, there are better dating apps out there - refer to pinned thread.
I agree about everything else - it's a numbers game and you'll just have to get better with every attempt.

QUOTE(thkent91 @ Nov 18 2023, 02:24 PM)
Can attend those fitness class. Aim for those female oriented type of exercise class

Alternatively, cooking and baking class

Attending seminars or those CDP class also can network
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Interesting suggestion, but be careful in showing your intentions. It's creepy if the ONLY reason you're there is to meet girls. Find something you're genuinely interested in, passion is attractive.
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post Nov 20 2023, 02:53 PM

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QUOTE(LameStudent @ Nov 12 2023, 08:29 PM)
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Couldn't help but chuckle a little, because this is somehow so adorably innocent.

You're right, your circle is pretty small so the only way is to expand it. And in order to expand your network, you have to get out of your comfort zone and meet people. I know, there are people who dread this. But other than books, what else appeals to you? Seriously, if you're into hiking, I think joining those random Hiking group to meet people, sweat it out and mingle, is a great opportunity for you to get started.

You'll have to look around for certain interest group/ community and try joining a few. Who knows? you might even make new friends and able to have more activities.

Oh yeah, some people enjoys cosplay or anime. You can also consider joining those circle (beware of drama) if you're into those.

Don't get into those YouTube videos where they pickup girls. Don't be surprised that some are staged, and also due to cultural differences, Asian girls may not likely to respond the same way. Watch/ read something that you find will work for you.

QUOTE(thkent91 @ Nov 18 2023, 02:24 PM)
Can attend those fitness class. Aim for those female oriented type of exercise class

Alternatively, cooking and baking class

Attending seminars or those CDP class also can network
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Takudan is right, be careful when you talk about fitness class or gym. Approaching other female members with some kind of intent could be wrongly interpreted and if you acted odd, you may be labelled by everyone as a pervert. lol don't be surprised if the club manager asked to see you one day laugh.gif

I find it rather odd that people join activities with sole mindset of looking for potential partner/ date. Go with an open mind to make new friends (male/ female) and expand your network. If you're lucky to meet someone potential, then its all the better. Otherwise, activities should be done with the aim of one's wellbeing, filling interest, learning new skill, having fun etc
sourcream47
post Feb 1 2024, 12:51 PM

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Starting always the hardest one but you need to start somewhere else. If you like to go to bookstore, then try start there, start with a place that you familiar with and using dating apps is also a good choice to let you practice how to chat with a girl. For me, i also a introvert but i start talk with girl on sugarbook and others dating apps as well because for me not direct face to face talking, so won't feel so uncomfortable.

 

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