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post Nov 7 2023, 08:05 AM

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QUOTE(achong09 @ Nov 7 2023, 07:59 AM)
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post Nov 7 2023, 07:47 PM

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QUOTE(MasterConfucion @ Nov 7 2023, 07:16 AM)
The problem u have is internal. Try shifting your mindset. You don't have to love your job but stop focus on the hate. Success is 80% internal and 20% action.

I have same like u before although I'm not out of the hole yet but shifting my mindset I'm happier than before. If need someone to talk deeper give me pm I'll try to help
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How did you do it? shifting mindset is no easy task...
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post Nov 7 2023, 07:52 PM

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QUOTE(AREA51 @ Nov 7 2023, 07:47 PM)
How did you do it? shifting mindset is no easy task...
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It need some deep thinking and positivity. Also depends on your natural character whether it's easy or not. If u r naturally optimistic and stuck in certain situation then it's easy to influence your mindset than pessimistic.

By shifting mindset I don't mean trick yourself to change your thinking. It doesn't work. For example if u hate your boss and it's makes your life suck then it's a fact. You don't change thinking to become love your boss.

If need more counselling then pm me I can teach more
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QUOTE(AREA51 @ Nov 6 2023, 09:28 PM)
I'm kinda sick of my working life, it's like a never ending repetitive cycle. I have tried changing jobs and while they're almost always fresh and exciting initially, I find myself going back to the state of asking myself what's the meaning of all this.

/k got any wisdom to share? =/
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post Nov 8 2023, 12:12 AM

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take a hobby outside the work life, something far different from your job type
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post Nov 8 2023, 12:16 AM

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QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Nov 6 2023, 09:46 PM)
Same lo.

Keeo finding more and more money so that everyone around happy, to put food on table for mama papa, bini, kids. Can buy gifts for bini, buy toys for kid.

And one day finally time come to kick the bucket
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What bucket?
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post Nov 8 2023, 12:24 AM

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post Nov 8 2023, 12:30 AM

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QUOTE(AREA51 @ Nov 6 2023, 09:28 PM)
I'm kinda sick of my working life, it's like a never ending repetitive cycle. I have tried changing jobs and while they're almost always fresh and exciting initially, I find myself going back to the state of asking myself what's the meaning of all this.

/k got any wisdom to share? =/
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QUOTE(smokey @ Nov 6 2023, 09:29 PM)
Can look forward for each payday
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post Nov 8 2023, 12:44 AM

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i guess many working adult will have the same problem as u... tired and sick of the rat race...
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post Nov 8 2023, 12:51 AM

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QUOTE(AREA51 @ Nov 7 2023, 07:47 PM)
How did you do it? shifting mindset is no easy task...
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Always remind yourself don't work against the flow.. once i mastered it life was never the same Anymore.

I've been working 16 years non stop.. except for my annual leaves i literally never had a proper long break. I think I'll stop down when I'm 55.
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post Nov 8 2023, 01:39 AM

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QUOTE(skyblack4492 @ Nov 8 2023, 12:16 AM)
What bucket?
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Mean mati lo
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QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Nov 8 2023, 01:39 AM)
Mean mati lo
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