not worth the trouble. move on.

Find another.

Find someone older or not so pretty also never mind.

you are looking for life long partner, don't be fool by pretty face or pretty body, those things faded with time real fast.

only the inner beauty shine with times.

beauty + money are not the only thing, life is much more than that.

I agree, if the guy or girl is not social
then its just for show only
I see a lot of people go wedding just staring their own phones and upload into social media

Ouch that hurts. You can find another rich girl. Most of my girl friends who are rich married to average man

I'm surprised still wanna talk The fact that she can easily say this to him means he doesn't matter much to the girl. If she even likes you a little, she would at least start mild by asking you to work harder or hint that someone is looking down upon you.

...Unless there was a trigger point to this somehow... I can't imagine what though.

You never know if you didn't talk this through, I agreed that the girl and her family obviously looking down at TS but still no harm talk this out. Why is that? Well if people ask which i think people will, TS can say he already tried to talk or discuss but it was them who can't accept TS.

nah no way u let them disrespect u like this, i will always keep my dignity and leave them bs

Everyone have to start from somewhere esp more so if you're not from a rich family. Not rich now doesn;t mean later in life you wouldn't be.

Better if the guy have good character and work smart. I was only renting a small condo and driving an old Waja when i met my wife and was earning a mere 5k. 20 years later we're now staying in a semid, 3 cars and my income per month is >30k.

TS no reply at all. Hope he already made up his mind.

Just scare he bodoh-bodoh stick to this girl and making his life miserable just to please someone.

maybe you are m40, and your wife also m40, despite her family is t20... so i feel is ok lah... it still match...

but for ts case, high chance he is b40, gf m40, father is m40/t20... because of the mismatch, gf's father will say something gua... i m just guessing, need more information from TS about his income and her gf income level

This post has been edited by siew14: Nov 7 2023, 02:21 PM

Sounds like she's being with you out of convenience or pity. She could be already be stringing you along until the other guy seal the deal.

I'd say the bad thing is that if you really loved this girl then surely such explaination hurts as the ending is approaching, but the good thing you are now presented with other options while still being able to enjoy certain activities with her while it lasted.

Start moving on and looking around man... so you won't feel that hurt when the end comes.

TS wrote:

"So I dating this girl, she is okay with me and wants me to improve in life."

"she told me if the parents found a guy who is well to do n she gt chemistry with him, she will leave me."

In my opinion,
it sounds like the gf has experienced lots of disappointment in the relationship to want to accept an arranged marriage and give TS the ultimatum.
Normally, girls don't do this unless something is wrong with the relationship itself already.

We should hear the other side of the story before making a judgement.

This post has been edited by Ralna: Nov 12 2023, 12:18 PM

Reminds me of the saying "When a guy cheats it's his fault, but when his girl cheats, it's still his fault"

well who doesnt want things to be better off, for gais this is like a little hurdle d, more red flags soon. meanwhile i suppose you gotta give it a shot but like others said. not worth it

No point continuing with this relationship. Improve yourself and show her family plus herself what they are missing in the future.
My ex left me for similar situation. Now that i am married with great career, she is still single.

The problem is the girl doesn't want to go thru think and thin with you. I will just ignore the parent.

I? How old?

What you are today will not be what you will be 10y from know.

I personally feel it will be more fulfilling to to build a relationship n starting a spouse who sticks with you through thick and thin.

It's good you got to know now. I can imagine the son in law (whom ever he will be) will be treated getting VSS can couldn't get a new job in 6 months n had to do grab while waiting.

You really should not hVe your kids around grandparents with this attitude.

Why are you even opening a thread after a girl tells you she will leave you if there is chemistry with another person?

This post has been edited by g5sim: Nov 25 2023, 09:36 AM

when a man wins a fight (not physical ok) against a woman, he is a bully

when a man loses a fight against a woman, he is a pussy

Those girls / parent so dumb. If we improved ourselves to higher standard, then we will have plenty of choice, why should we choose the girl / their daughter hahahaha