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Splitting bill on the first date, Even if the date didn't go well?
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 Oct 16 2023, 02:28 PM
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there are few reasons why you should initiate paying as a guy:
-it looks better as you signal provider attribute
-it makes it easier for you to ask out 'high quality' girl (but its subjective, there are females who just want free dinner so they purposely dress better and only go out with rich guys)
-if you can afford rm200 lunch, that means you probably have a decent place to invite girls home for fun time
It just makes everything easier, but its not a must.
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Oct 16 2023, 02:30 PM
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QUOTE(Duckies @ Oct 16 2023, 01:43 PM) I also feel not good la...as a guy gentlemen sikit. Unless the opposite side is a biatch that leech for free food. you can still bang some cute and attractive girls by spending less, but your pool of choices become limited, there are girls who don't give you much of time when they see your instagram post has nothing going on |
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Oct 17 2023, 01:27 PM
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QUOTE(Takudan @ Oct 16 2023, 10:02 PM) 1. Man offers to pay first (the norm)
2. Woman is grateful and offers to pay for next meal/tea. (If first meetup already decided it's not a match then just split bill and call it a day)
3. Man is grateful and accepts her offer.
It's a give and take and everyone is happy. I love the art of give and take because I feel happy to be pampered, at the same time I'd love to let you feel the same way! By splitting bill all the time, you kill the opportunity. Ive been ghosted after first date as low as rm30 If a girl initates split bill on initial meeting, its usually no 2nd time again as a courtesy if i genuinely find her boring and borderline impolite (ie keep looking at her phone), i will also ask her to split |
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Oct 17 2023, 04:06 PM
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 17 2023, 02:07 PM) Say whole bill about 80-150. Well I had a worse incident. Girl agreed to go out for whole day, literally Lunch till Dinner + Movie in middle. Everything I paid including popcorn and all. End up, no more dates and "Sorry, I see you as a brother only" I spent like below rm100 (include motel fee) and piap the girl, all from beginning to end less than 3 hours this is called efficiency clearly your mindset and strategy is wrong |
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Oct 17 2023, 05:03 PM
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QUOTE(djlake @ Oct 17 2023, 02:10 PM) If you have no plans to get under her skirt, go dutch then. If you wanna get under her skirt, then I say it is worth the investment. most women will pretend like you should be the one paying, its unwritten rule, there are some nasty girls who just say next time i belanja you la with that innocent tone, then proceed to ghost you If the guy cant afford to pay, might as well go something cheaper |
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Oct 18 2023, 10:49 AM
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QUOTE(magicforumer @ Oct 18 2023, 12:14 AM) If guy somehow didn't enjoy the date so much, it would feel good for the guy if the girl insisted to go dutch (especially if the guy had a series of uninteresting dates) there are girls who will use just-because-im-a-woman-you-should-pay card, better keep the costs low if you dont know the person well |
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Oct 19 2023, 07:47 PM
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QUOTE(Ralna @ Oct 18 2023, 10:30 PM) We liked each other and got closer physically. but he wouldn't kiss me nor tell me that he loved me. I guess he was afraid to give his heart as he had failed relationships before.. What? You both are malay or what so you been seeing each other quite awhile and no sex happens? I wonder how much trauma this guy have to let go |
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