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 Splitting bill on the first date, Even if the date didn't go well?

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guysmiley
post Oct 20 2023, 05:24 PM

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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 16 2023, 01:40 PM)
Well, I heard somebody saying that you do not split the bill no matter what on the first date even if it isn't good.

So what do you think?
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depends on type of girl u dating
Life_House
post Oct 21 2023, 12:21 AM

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QUOTE(Ralna @ Oct 18 2023, 10:30 PM)
We liked each other and got closer physically. He asked me to meet his parents and thought of marrying me, but he wouldn't kiss me nor tell me that he loved me. I guess he was afraid to give his heart as he had failed relationships before. Also, he wasn't sure if he wanted to have children.

After that, my ex-bf returned and wanted reconciliation, so it became a love triangle. I had feelings for both men, but my ex-bf was more decisive. He straightaway went to see my parents and asked my dad for my hand in marriage.

In the end, the relationship manager chose to let go unwillingly. I could only say he didn't fight hard enough because of his past relationship failures and his feelings for me weren't deep enough. Until today, he's still single in his 40s and seeing/dating many women.
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How do you feel about your current marriage ?


lopo90
post Oct 21 2023, 08:30 AM

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QUOTE(Ralna @ Oct 18 2023, 10:53 PM)
I know. He expressed it through romantic actions. I liked him a lot and thought of marrying him too... It's a pity we didn't reach the official couple stage.

That's why it's important for men to be more resolute when pursuing women. Previous relationships are in the past; don't let them affect current and future relationships. Be bold and open to love again.
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You still chose your ex in the end
Chadlonso
post Oct 23 2023, 09:10 PM

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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 17 2023, 02:07 PM)

Well I had a worse incident.

Girl agreed to go out for whole day, literally Lunch till Dinner + Movie in middle.

Everything I paid including popcorn and all.

End up, no more dates and "Sorry, I see you as a brother only"
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its fine u just dodge a bullet
sourcream47
post Feb 24 2024, 06:17 PM

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Yes, better don't coz first impression is very important. Pick some place that is not so cheap and not so expensive. Even after first date become friendzone also not rugi lah.

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