When I first met my gf she was slim then she keep on gaining weight. She has unhealthy eating habits and dun exercise. Anyway to ask her to take care of her weight any argument to use to change her behavior. I tried but didn't work asking her to be healthy.

are u going on a diet and working out urself?

Need to go jogging, swim, play ball or games together and together is the key word here. Maybe digital games like Playstation fitness games to make it more enjoyable.

Start reject her.

Reduce your piap session like if you do it twice weekly then reduce to once every two weeks to show you no longer interested in her

Start rub her belly and if she ask why said its getting rounder(sacrcasm)

ya man, do it together

tell her that she look ugly on bed

You need to lead by example. If you cannot lead by example, it will not happen.

You need to start adopting a healthier lifestyle and pick the places you go to eat with more healthier options.

If you opted for the healthier food, she will indirectly follows. If you opted for more frequent of walk at the park or housing area, she will follows.

The most importance turning point to push it to self sustain momentum = she must be able to see the changes happening to her body, her waist line reduces, she can wear more attractive clothing with more confident.

That is usually 6~9 months gestation period. If you cannot endure pass this period, usually the subject will be demotivated & loss the momentum.

This post has been edited by nihility: Oct 10 2023, 02:24 PM

No, die die insist she is slim and looks beautiful, still very hot nekkid.

In the meantime, start by proclaiming you want to be healthy wanna go gym, you start first, then ask her together with you. You must be discipline and keep going at it.

She will get some senses knocked into her head and follow.

do it as a couple thing
diet together
gym together
piap more = more calories burn

my situation is the opposite

my wife exercises regularly and maintains a strict discipline diet.

she asked me to do the same but i cannot cope with it.

To go on a diet, it requires very strict discipline.

If your gf is not someone with self-discipline, you wait long long la

Senang Je, cakap Iphone15 kalau reduce to xx Kg

Piap every day for 2 hrs~~~ tell her to drink ur juice can diet~~

Do not do this... it will hurt her and even if she slimmed down, everytime you are in bed, she'll remember this.

Bring her to bodycheck.. Then kasi rasuh doctor kasi report xcantik...let her feel fear then she will workout or at least having better diet.

ask her to see a doctor for a diet programme plus a check up , go exercise with her every week

U do the diet exactly what u expect her to do. When ur appearance more attractive then before, she ends up 2 situations, she cannot feel anything still doing her own business, u two ald in separate world, so naturally breakup, second is she feel danger and shame, join ur routine, u hit ur target.

However there is also third situation, u end up to have more attractive appearance and u decide it's time to change partner, u initiate the breakup first, haha. Means u dont play enough, u dont wanna settle down actually, u thought u love ur gf but is actually not. u just want a slim "partner" that can give u face. Personally think u are this type, most of the men is this type.

Point is u must do the diet first and u have successfully improved urself. This is the key.

U know what, u can just break up, let her go.

tell her an ultimatum will not work. Its like a parent telling the kid how to behave but they're not a good example for the kid

Evolutionary through the millennium since the caveman days, of course men want a slim woman.

The same goes with women prefer a man with resources. A man with a job to can earn money for the family.

Ask any educated woman if she wants to date a lazy jobless man?

this is about health brother , health improves according to bmi dun talk about appearance and if break up u think i bother post here for advice

First, are you a healthy, a fit person yourself?

Then Counter her "you should love me for what I'm" first
then "oh I fat you don't love me anymore la?!"

Lastly, if she still give bs excuse, feed her until she get all those HBP shits, pray she'll start realize fat is bad.
A Cantonese saying literally meaning ”if the needle doesn’t pierce your flesh you won’t feel the pain"

Until she realize fat is bad because fat is easily most obvious outcome of one screwing up his/her lifestyle, nothing worth doing.
The next stage of fat is obese.

Good luck

This post has been edited by helven: Oct 16 2023, 02:38 PM