First, are you a healthy, a fit person yourself?

Then Counter her "you should love me for what I'm" first
then "oh I fat you don't love me anymore la?!"

Lastly, if she still give bs excuse, feed her until she get all those HBP shits, pray she'll start realize fat is bad.
A Cantonese saying literally meaning ”if the needle doesn’t pierce your flesh you won’t feel the pain"

Until she realize fat is bad because fat is easily most obvious outcome of one screwing up his/her lifestyle, nothing worth doing.
The next stage of fat is obese.

Good luck

This post has been edited by helven: Oct 16 2023, 02:38 PM