I got this group of Sales guys in my company, they like to go Pub to drink liquor.

All married and have kids, but like to go to those place with GRO, rub their bebola.

Some of them even got high blood pressure and diabetic issues. Yet they still drink like no tomorrow although they claim to do so moderately.

Every week, spent 1k-3k each on drinks. To me, what a waste of money.

I don't see the fun in going to pub, noisy music, cig smoke, expensive liquor and the girls. Mind you, before i got married, I was into this. But now married and family man, I don't see a point in going back to that life. I want to save money for my kid's education, don't want to blow it all on liquor and some more other people tumpang my drinks.

Got one time, when I was in my 20s, some old men went and tumpang our drinks, one of my friend, a sailor, invited them, but another friend went into a fist fight with those uncles.

what is the point of getting married, when they want to play GRO in the toilet ? or take them to a room? mind as well stay single.

Also they ruin their own health drinking.

some more after drink, have to labor back home half dead. I remembered when those days b4 I got married and drank a lot, until 4am then have to labor back drive 20km or more back home, feel like there is big cloud around my eyes and sleepy, so I raced back as fast as I can to home for sleep. Then wake up next day with migrane. After those experiences, I stopped this kind of life.

Some of them also tell me that by drinking it helps to forget your problem. When I drink, I wake up next day, i find the problem magnify 10x in my head.

I told those drinking geng, that I rather stay at home with my wife and kids than to go drinking. And I tell them, if they wanted me to join, NO GRO !!!! I can see the look of disappoiintment in their faces, less one kaki. I see a bunch of 40s-60s men wanting to go pub drink thinking its cool and the in thing. To me, its a waste of money. Yeah these sales guys probably make some business connection and increase their sales. Thank goodness I am not in the sales line.

This post has been edited by hoonanoo: Aug 29 2023, 02:47 PM

Mind your own business.

How about you take your Sales Guys drinking one day and give them a big lecture about your views la.
One man's meat is another man's poison.

why u care how people spend their money?

maybe they also think you are a boring guy, etc...

people go relax lose some steam very normal what
also

Lol ts as if they were using your money. Let ppl enjoy things

your point its to condemn people spending money or trying to make yourself look good?

So it's all about what you like huh

Imagine being the people around this guy. Everything also I I I I I

This post has been edited by ctwice: Aug 29 2023, 03:08 PM

why is this in serious /k?

why are u so sibuk? are they using ur money?

Peoples want to do what and no harm to you also want to rant. Epic

rub bebola is very enjoying

Their money, their health and life. Let them do what they like.

As long as you know what's good for your bank account, health enough already.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Aug 29 2023, 03:23 PM

sooner or later they will get bored

This is call socialise. TS forever alone kena left out kesian

TS is not being forced to joined them, so why is TS complaining?

You live your way of life, they live their way of life.

Unnecessary to preach your way of life to them or vice versa.

Be happy with your way & leave them be.

But he got wife Leh. Not like most of us here 30+ yr old virgin.

Don't tell me you quit drinking bro? I remember you clean house also whilst drinking beer 😄
That's the right way to do cleaning actually.

some men's poison is another woman's drink .....
or somethin like this

Don't sour grape la....
Let people enjoy their life, not that they using your money also

to each their own

consider yourself wise for doing the right thing by not splurging 1-3k on alcohol and rubbing rubbing

even if i drink, i drink at home. much much cheaper, and i feel safe.

drunk driving confession page ah?

they may have wife and kids but the GRO also have family back home in viet,indon,thai. kesian them also la they need income from your colleagues also

bait tered.

Star farming thread.

Kasi chan lah macha

Sebab bole.

tutup mata je

ya bcause i seldom clean...so must mabuk my self while doing a deep clean job

Well, if money is not an issue for them. Why not.

if they not enjoying then wont spend money and having that kind of life .

as usual mind your own biz .

for me its like escapism
just like a woman claims she enjoys shopping
Its like shopping for loneliness

whats the point of drinking if there are no girls around you?
if you're alone i would say go exercise is far better option

maybe they are not as happy as you after they get married.

degenerates lol

If not happy after married why get married?
If want piap can stay single as well
If you not happy before having money/or wife you'll end up miseable as well and spend all of it on unproductive things

i go for my drinking gang companionship and the environment... drinking with friends is more enjoyable drinking with wife no?

ask them.

u ask here for what.
u ask here hoping they read and reply to u?


u ask here and other people tell u what they think la.

close one eye, so that pub and clubbing can make money by luring girls in. Young girls get profit, old men spend money and feeling empty after giving money to gro

win lose situation

I also don't understand,
like don't understand why TS open a tered about it in Serious K summore.

correct. go pilates better can see half ball

who says need girls around to drink

haiya

Should tag one of the mods as TS is spamming tereds on serious /k.

Some people like fat women, some people like skinny women. Some like pies.

People like to enjoy life their way. If you don't get it, why do you let it gnaw away at you?
Just live your life.

pointless to drink anyway
get gastric, feel shitty the next morning

drinking makes ur vision appear eveything slower and more romantic
you become more comfortable with drinking but the more drinking you become shittier mood

yup, always feels shit the next day

because can boost economy

what so proud n special being a ordinary family guy ts

This is a yes.

Pilates, Yoga, whatever, say how proper they want, but it was lepas setengah bijik kind of environment with the teacher-style depending on how much of a whore or saint virgin mary she appeared.

I when still in Msia went to the Weld to practice Pilates class, and trust me, the office zeh zeh there, all darn open and everest. Even hooked a few after class to pancut inside car. Back then dun have whatever lulu lemon la, nike la, etc fad sport wear and so on punyai wokey? Pretty normal, so you see all original, unlike now its literally fake as shit display and show.

But to TS, your concern here is more like a rant of yours. You gotta take it in that people socialize is people's matter, not yours. I hate how I see people desecrate a fine seafood also, but I won't question how sloppy and hanjing they eat their food. Because the outcome is the food wont go into my stomach.

Still, its fine to bantai them via words because if you did to their face, friendship gone case.

Got gastric issue, still go drinking or choose this as mean of entertainment, is totally fakap.

Its like I got peanut allergy, but still choose to go to peanut appreciation club to get allergized. Shiok?

so u drunk driving?

Going to beer and going to wine place is different class
people may choose to go higher end place to discuss business
at the end of day, gro or clubbing place to spend money on unnecessary high can be waste of time
there are guys i know that spend minimally on club and able to pull girl home this one will be different segment

Honest, lain org money, lain org punya pasal.

TS expected Lowyat army to agree with him but sadly tats not the case. Seems like he is the odd one here, better go reflect.


This post has been edited by Xccess: Aug 29 2023, 07:13 PM

Its not about drinking or women or infidelity or raba raba

Its about being judgmental & holier than thou towards those that aren't like you.

TS, learn to Live & Let Live.
The world is not a zero sum game.

they are drinking their sorrows away

Get drunk then easy to blame

Oh. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to sleep with you. I was drunk. I didn't know what I was doing. It wasn't me. It was the alcohol

From strategic viewpoint of economy, pub drinking and nightlife helps developing many other related businesses and also up value the surrounding properties

Take for example Bangsar Telawi area, single storey terrace house selling at RM2.5million

comparing a double storey terrace house in my taman RM600k only

How to piap when single?

that's where the get their sales figure :X

Reading books and coffee at home doesn't help in sales

are they having sex with the girls they meet in pub every week? if yes, that means they found sex is the purpose of life.

try joining a yoga class in malay community. it will be different.

After tat will go /k n start pretend expert n troll. End kena perma bora2..n restart with new dupe.

I actually agree with him, it can be waste of money and time

Sex is an achievement other than foods

use your mouth to talk and persuade

Ts isnt complaining. He's looking to understand and he gives his reason why he feels it's a waste of time.
You have no problem ts. And you get high on life. You dont need anything to escape reality because reality is kind to you.

Congratulation on the good life. May it well continue.

Need show luxury car and money rite?

no fundamentally
If you just have money, you'll only attract gold diggers
but if you choose to hide your money, you can screen her whether she likes you for whom you're not what you can provide (lifestyle) to her

You beliep meh TS got wife and kids? Self righteous ktard.

Sounds like you shouldnt be drinking but not others.

Because I sure as hell don't get gastric from drinking lmao.

convince me the benefit of drinking and eating junk fold

Same as posting in /k I suppose. Its not healthy but we do it anyway.

Your question is as good as "convince me drinking soda over water"

Dude, let people have their fun man LOL. It's not for you to decide what's fun for them.

1. Escapism from existing life problem and this is dangerous as you see it.
2. TO destress albeit in an unhealthy way but if done moderately with consideration of financial capability then no issue.
3. Salesman talk, breaking ice easier in such environment and follow up call next morning after the bonding.
4. Man like thrill of hunting. Everyday eat shark fin also sien 😪

Why would I, a sane Chinese with no restriction, go to join a malay community class for yoga?

That would be ridiculous.

Plot twist, TS wanna understand if he open a pub with many GRO, will he make money.

IMO, many people are not happy with their marriage, got issues in sex life, nagging wife etc. In these places, they get high drinking and have a lady that gives them attention.

Hope this helps.

This post has been edited by sikongma: Aug 30 2023, 03:17 PM

if i foreveralone I sure join them.

u sure have a major reading problem.

kesian ur lack of eyes

well thanks to them, pay more taxes to government.

govt subsidise b40 to increase.

TS is seriously retarded. Time to go mental hospital for treatment.

CONGRATULATION

GOOD FOR YOU

I went to UK pub, is a whole lot different environment there.

people bring their kids, throw darts, play pool, watch EPL.

people drink beer, like drink beverage.

its quiet and they don't blast music into your ears until deaf.

some more beer and liquor is cheap there.

Even in cambodia, I used to pay RM4 for a mug of beer.

Here it is so expensive, why want to waste money?

I mean i like to drink coffee, but if they start charging RM40 per cup of coffee, I would give up.

Why here, they turn pubs into some kind of male bonding area?

what so mentally retarded about this discussion?

its a discussion

if it is retarded it is you, with no brain, empty inside.

So why don't you have the discussion directly with your Sales people that like to do this? Give us their reasoning.
Everyone has their own sins & hobbies. As an adult, mind your own business. Don't judge people.

so to you judging = retarded

come on grow some brains.

I think nothing wrong with having a drink, but to keep doing this weekly, paying high duties to govt, so that they can subsidize the B40, is seriously wasting your money.

In other countries you can pay as low as RM4-10 for cocktail or a mug of beer. But its expensive over here.

If one wants to socialize, why not just have it over a teh ais in a mamak and talk?

Drinking is not a sin, but if one spends 3k every week on drinks, while they can save it for other better purposes, its wasteful.

bonding with colleague, smooth the project, up the sales, best combo...

It's their money, not yours. Who are you to judge? There's so many different ways to socialize in the world.
How other humans do it is their business, not yours. How other people wanna save/spend their money, it's their choice.

Whether it's wasteful, not for you to decide. If you think your way is the best, go and become a preacher.
See if you can develop your own cult religion.

Then you don't post in K lah.

Not our biz right?

why you so kepo want to post about other issue? after all u said who are you to judge?

most posting here, is judging and coming out our own opinion to judge isn't it?

someone post in hggghhghg, someone say not hggghh, some say hggghhh, who are we to judge?
someone post in politiks, say some politician try to enforce a law against people's will, some say agree, some say not agree, if who are we to judge, then don't bother to post lah
someone post gore of someone die in accident, some say wohoo I give score 10/10, some say oh that poor dude. if who are we to judge then don't bother to post lah
can close down lowyat lah, because who are we to judge, right?

can agree to disagree
or can agree
but to say who are we to judge, then you close down your account lah, don't post here, because all posting here is due to judge, otherwise, we won't be in this site.

posting in k is all about opinions, agree or disagree.

This post has been edited by hoonanoo: Aug 30 2023, 05:08 PM

You post in Serious K. So have a serious discussion la. You got speak to your Sales people? Understand their point of view? Their insights?
Share what they said la. Post your own rant here but cannot share the other side of the coin. End of the day, everyone on /k got some level of sohainess.

Unpopular opinion, but I tend to agree with TS and mystery here. Drinking brings no benefit. Even one that I can think of would be.. probably the few hours of high and rush.

Then again, looking at the bigger picture without judging, people have their own way of fun. If Alcohol, pubs, and singing is their kind of fun so be it.

Who are we to dictate the way they wanna live their lives.On the other hand, we have our rights to voice opinions. I'm with TS on this.

What can I say? To each their own.

This post has been edited by The Hunt Begins: Aug 30 2023, 05:47 PM

i can think of a few reasons.

1. Unhappy marriage so there's a reason to go out.
2. A form of PR requirement even if they don't want, but their client want. They need to close the deal.
3. Men with excessive testosterone. It's a suitable lifestyle for these kind of partygoers. Meditation is not their way, club is but you shouldn't judge either. To each, their own.

in europe where beer is cheaper than water, you feel guilty for buying water

Men have been drinking since time immemorial. Drinking is popular among European, Japanese, Korean, PRC, Vietnamese, Cambodian, Thai, etc culture. Having wine, beer or liquor over dinner is common and normal. A reason why most if not all GLC unsuccessful internationally.

Duty on alcohol in this country is among the highest in the world. A reason why few tourists returns again.

History showed, those countries and culture banned alcohol tend to be less developed and progress in technology and economic. A reason why bedouins live in a few centuries ago lifestyle.

This post has been edited by icemanfx: Aug 30 2023, 07:24 PM

Spending money and enjoying not always means it's good for you. Case in point, smoking. That's why government keep coming up with acts to discourage smoking

Now, of course others have the rights to spend their money to enjoy and as long not hurting anyone we should just leave the fuck out of them. My point is just not every case that spending money to enjoy = good, some people need a knock out of their addiction

This post has been edited by viktorherald: Aug 30 2023, 07:44 PM

u see, so many shoot u... all of them 90% are same as your sale guys