If she cant, let he go and dont deny her happiness for your own selfish reasons for not wanting marriage.

I'm really curious what is your plan  for this relationship and the future of both of you ?

Getting married was never your plan for every relationship you've been in ?

more like a companionship you meant? pet kan ada

Womanising and having many partners is very tiring after a while.

If you are only prioritizing your own satisfaction of your loneliness then it's really very irresponsible for your partner that have plan for their future. If that's the case should just be switching different fwb every night.

Why wanna take someone's time when you are not ready to commit ?

U think this is game ah

That’s a human being not npc ffs

don't come out and destroy someone's daughters' life.

You are same shit as TS

But we have quite an unrepentant resident player here in this section of the forums hahaha…. He hasn’t terasa yet…

I beg to differ. A healthy sense of self value has to be made up of a combination of intrinsic as well as topped up with a sprinkling of extrinsic qualities. To have only a wholly internal barometer or as you said “god perspective” is both unhealthy and unbalanced.

Megalomaniacs, dictators and narcissists… these are the characteristics of those who measure themselves with no regard for accountability.

From your skewed and inaccurate perspective, yes, you’ve said that many times… perhaps in an attempt to convince yourself, most of all.

I actually found that dating in my mid 40s were much easier than when I was in my mid 20s.

Why are you so quick to dismiss the role that financial stability plays in the interaction? Just curious.

Because I would imagine a confident, suave, self assured person with the financial clout to back up his words and actions would score more points than the same type of person who, apart from his demeanour, words and self confidence, is actually running on empty….

A spoilt rich girl will have a different standard of resource compared to a B40 girl.

Wow... bar's set super low for some, I guess.

Oh, really? I would have thought that's what any man with any other worthwhile achievement (financial, academic, professional, family etc) would think.

People often choose to focus on the only thing that they're good at, no matter how controversial or dubious, because they are devoid of any other worthwhile achievements.

Don't need to be a SJW to see that ... anyone with half a working brainstem and a functioning eyeball could tell you that.

If you only got energy/resources to focus on either be rich or be a casanova which path would you take ?

Both are desirable resources of men.

As I said, his inability to process and synthesise possibilities beyond his own limited paradigmatic boundaries (ie some men or women could be looking for more than just a fling) is demonstrative of a lack of a critical mind and, the corollary of that failing, an outright shallowness in thinking.

I find it both fascinating and rather sad that he is blinded by his glaring foible and mistakes his ignorance for self confidence.

Ah, the presumptuous mind of an immature thinker.

Who said anything about needing to be a work slave to make the kind of money I am making or talking about?

And so many other incorrect assumptions of an inept mind of an incompetent man…

Somehow you did not answer my question on the choice of which resources to better focus on in building up a skillset.

Each path of mastery required time and effort, you cant be good with women or earn money in your 30s/40s without first focusing your energy and time building up your skillset during the 20s.

Its not like you play the field and go pick up girls every weekend during your 20s and by the time you hit 30s you suddenly say ok im done and you want build up your career or a business with your approaching women skill that you learn earlier. Unless your career is open a pua academy or recruit women for of /porn.