Aug 3 2023, 08:44 PM
QUOTE(Tengku_Norlin @ Aug 3 2023, 08:26 PM)
Strictly speaking about marriage.
As the a child of divorced parents, I've seen how ugly it can get when two individuals are forced to marry due to societal pressures.
Even without that there are so many issues that can strain a marriage (i.e finances, SO's family, mismatch of ideals post marriage).
Makes you wonder what the point of marriage?
Marriage is getting a lifelong best friend at minimum.As the a child of divorced parents, I've seen how ugly it can get when two individuals are forced to marry due to societal pressures.
Even without that there are so many issues that can strain a marriage (i.e finances, SO's family, mismatch of ideals post marriage).
Makes you wonder what the point of marriage?
You can have a best friend and still not have the problems you mentioned above right? You are not going to complain about money, his family or your own ideals of perfection to your best friend. If your best friend is a man u supporter but you are liverpool you just grin and bear it right, why can't you do the same for your spouse?
Normally people become too comfortable, start taking their partners for granted, and that is where all the problems start.
Take a best friend as your base line, anything else is a bonus and you will do fine.
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