Today a friend talked about forgiveness. He said if his partner cheated on him once, he will forgive her but he will leave. He feels that leaving the toxic relationship is a way to forgive a person.

In my argument, it's more to just finding an easy way out of things.

What do you all think? Can you all totally forgive a cheater?

Leave is the best solution. Because if you stay in this relationship there will always be this baggage. Eventually this burden will get too heavy to bare.

Each goes their way, next time meet again can still be friends.

If they are all turn out just as good, how?  How do you decide who to let go? Somebody bound to get hurt . I can't bare to see ladies cry. The guilt will eat you up if you have a conscience.

One at a time....bah.

But how you forgive when you already left? It's like you say forgive but you still feel the hurt from the cheating. That's not forgiving.

The issue is there are lot of people are not equipped to be monogamous either they forced themselves to quickly find a partner ended up cheating (cause they settled for minimum)

they dont know what they want inherently
thats why being a player is crucial. If you dont play the field you will not know who's truly compatible with you. There are also guys who just married their high school (very rare) or college gf after being together for many years, ended up divorce as well. Life is unpredictable

Its bad to follow social conditionings
But if they want to be a sheep, that's fine