QUOTE(wonglokat @ Jun 13 2023, 11:46 PM)
Informative AMA, TS. Some questions for tomorrow based on more recent posts
1. Picking up from that crisp response to the DINK question and Hansel's input, what other motivations for you to get up and leave if you were single?
2. You mentioned fitting in. Anyone who made it there would have passed the language language requirements so I'm pretty sure you have some traits in mind but didn't elaborate on. I mean AU, like MY, would be big enough for the common social traits on both ends.
3 SOL and your friends aside, do you have acquaintances or a relative of so-and-so not in medicine, accountancy, or engineering who lives comfortably? Low to mid M40 if they're in MY.
I'm thinking those who gave up and returned are simply ill-prepared in the funding department. Or I'm just missing the obvious.
Thanks.
1. Kids were a huge factor, which probably makes up around 70% - 80% of our motivation to move. Putting that aside, I would say poor political outlook and limited work-life balance, but both aren’t big factors at all. I don’t think Malaysia will fall anytime soon, definitely not in my lifetime, but if PAS does take over it’ll probably go downhill from there, but by then I’ll probably have more than enough money to not be affected by it and I don’t have any future generations to worry about either.
2. Having a good command of English will only help you get through the language barrier, but the bar isn’t set very high. Workplace etiquette, communication styles, hierarchical structures, etc. are something that most migrants will need to assimilate into, but Malaysians are generally okay if they’ve used predominantly English for business communication in their past work experiences and worked in MNCs where the working cultures are akin to their Western counterparts. It’s hard to explicitly list every differences, but one of the biggest differentiator is that Australians love taking the piss out of each other constantly, and you can’t do that in Malaysia without pissing off people. Also, it may be common to hang out with your colleagues outside of working hours for leisure activities, but it doesn’t really work that way here other than for a couple of beers and maybe the odd cycling session.
3. Unfortunately no, not within my circle of friends as they all migrated under skilled migration, so they’re all white collar professionals. I’ve heard of older folks migrating much, much earlier as a mechanic/baker/cook etc and have done well, but I’ve never personally met any yet.
Funding is only one factor. Homesickness and not being able to assimilate into the local society is the biggest driver I reckon. Being on holiday here and actually living here are completely different.