how you get to know her?

Soul mate or piap mate

For me I would say piap mate but she called as soul mate when I ask what's the relationship... Lol

Met her in Saigon's bookstore when cashier spoke vietnamese to me. She helped me out then I bought her coffee afterwards. That's how it started for a year now.

with 2 daughters


new up coming house


https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLPNn...6dj6D15nV5ZnLGA

This post has been edited by Meis: Jun 5 2023, 02:52 AM

This thread is NOT about 'go cheong'. It is about SUCCESSFUL stories of Asian men with ASEAN women/wife.

This post has been edited by Meis: Mar 30 2024, 02:39 AM

PART 2

Yes, I'm well aware of white privilege, white saviour, white worshiping, the White Man's Burden, etc. I was a victim of it for the first 25 years of my life until I was enlightened by Russia Today, Occupy Wall Street, start to read PRC history/culture. Now a full-fledged REAL PATRIOT of MY, PRC, support Asia for Asians, pro-Global South. Oh boy, I can tell you it was such a journey of enlightenment, resetting my brain, unplugging my brain from western imperialism.

In fact, I even have a rule of thumb on this called "Is the people in your society still taking pics of random white ppl on the streets?" If the answer is yes, then "your society" has white privilege issues. "Your society" meaning some ppl in your society are subhumans and do not understand the game of imperialism. It is not about being kind or friendly. Just stop taking pics with random Ang Moh already please.

Your definition of "Whiteness" is overrated or overstated
"Whiteness" is a product of 200 years of western imperialism
Multipolar world is ending it.

OK listen my friend. Now reset everything that you know about the world. YES. I REALLY MEAN IT.

Here we go.

Black/Africa invented steam engine.
Black/Africa kick started Industrial Revolution.
Black/Africa started ship voyage to the New World Europe.
Black/Africa traded/brought white European slaves.
Black/Africa is "The empire on which the sun never sets". Not British empire.
Black/Africa language is the norm. Not English.
Black/Africa music is the norm. Not mozart or western orchestra instruments.
Black/Africa pop culture is the norm. Not Hollywood. Not Japanese anime.
And so on. You get the drill.

Now YOU are NO longer white worshiping BUT Black/Africa worshiping.

Whiteness = ugly / loser
Blackness = beautiful / winner

You like Black/Africa for being SUCCESSFUL, RICH, and its DOMINATION.

Period.

The reason why we look down on Vietnamese, Pinoy and African are bcoz they are POOR and underdeveloped. Not their skin colour. Not Vietnamese 'swamp jungle' meme. This is a simple fact that most ppl ignored. It is related to your WEALTH, RESOURCE, NET WORTH.

There is no 'beautiful' white men or white women.
There is no 'beautiful' Japanese men or Japanese women.
Etc.
They are all myth.
It is mind colonization, subhuman behaviour and mental illness. Your brain is playing tricks on you. The 200 years of crap of western imperialism and marketing.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lnAC-Y9p_sY
And you clearly have yet to reach to higher level of thinking and enlightenment.

It is called 'stages of development'. Rich, self improved, upgrade, 'beautiful'.

That's why the REAL imperialist is trying hard to make you poor, endless war, endless coups, destabilize your country via color revolution, sanctions, control/lobby your ruling elites, etc.
No progress of 'stages of development', no rich, no self improved, no upgrade, no 'beautiful', yada yada.

Btw, there is no 'white'. It is a myth. It is race construct by right wing politics.
For example, 'White' Bosnian Muslim, 'White' Albanian Muslim? How do you math this?
They are basically the white nikka, slaves, cheap labours for the REAL EU force (the ppl who actually run EU).
EU uses them to 'tank' Islamic invasion, Turkey and Russia, while giving them fake hope to be full 'white'.
Muslim is basically unwanted child in EU.
Read history. Their thousand years of conflicts between the 3 religions LOL.
This is realism or realpolitik.

Human farming while pretending to be freedom and democrazy promoter.
Everyone is using everyone while pretending to be not so.
See? EU leaders 'farming' on each other and weaker EU countries. The vassal states, North African countries had it much worse.

The full 'white' theory or 'honourable member of the west' theory (Lee Kuan Yew has talked about this, btw) is nothing new. E.g. Ruling elites in SG, Malaysia, Saudi, JP, SK.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A8GwmsLXOx8...qhwC915FdK9axEY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aCrTNs-r0JU

Once again, I will say that WEALTH, RESOURCE, NET WORTH are the most important.

I think we need a new thread on "Real World Issues" section if this conversation has to continue.
https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5374670&hl=

Countries vs. countries vis-a-vis national prestige, national strength, national hierarchy, etc.:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zltC4oXoSxc...CpzkAfShOn2lqdY

Go to this Chinese Canadian channel (who are based/working in PRC):
https://www.youtube.com/@numuves/videos

This post has been edited by Meis: Mar 16 2025, 11:11 PM

It takes more than just a coffee to solidify your status in her heart.

Tell us the total damage.

Long distance would be challenging so WFH must really help.
I have an almost 19 year gap with my gf but she's local.
As long as 2 adults get along well and are understanding of each other, age is irrelevant.

youth is one thing.

but service that transcends youth and looks...that is the gold standard quality of life.

sex losing only to heroine cocaine - is the NO. 1 Euphoric Pleasure a human can experience.

back to service. ugliest look but man the dragon tongue and twister tongue will make any man reconsider how far sex can go. OLD KLANG ROAD.

looks and mad service? no problemo. Double DD and a body built for fark...along with the face of coz. Sri Sinar.

I am not joking u c.

Partner will always be multi factorial. Power alone wont be enough. Money alone wont be enough. Even if a Tan Sri buys a lambo but that feeling will definitely lose to OLD KLANG ROAD experience.

As far as average dude concern, especially those 40yo+ dudes, it is about the continuation of their lineage or extinct. Chinese culture emphasizes this.

I'm surprised that you guys do not know and understand the situation in ASEAN. For them, the parents are more than happy to get rid of a mouth to feed and having the son-in-law to sent money to them. That is how you forge alliance between 2 families. I thought this is a common notion that most ppl understood. I was wrong? Fkin liberalism is destroying everything I guess.

Men only care 3 things from women - fertility, obedience, do not overthrow the men.

"Men age like wine. Women age like cheese".

This post has been edited by Meis: Jun 5 2023, 02:14 AM

PRC Chinese-Indonesian in PRC





Chinese American-Indonesian in Indonesia
Carl Zha is a political analyst and historian. You can find him on TV news sometimes. Born in Chongqing, PRC, moved to Murica at 10 or something. He went thru the Murican brainwashing propaganda pro-war education system during the Iraq, Afghanistan wars.
She is Hindu. She does handicraft.



https://twitter.com/CarlZha

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLPNn...fUjipwpqXeudvRZ

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLPNn...c8bXIcfRNlZQmgS
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLPNn...GJN5qg7loOSph1U

This post has been edited by Meis: Mar 22 2024, 12:14 AM

555

Her Loatian wife's kampung? Buying land, farm, house?
I noticed one thing. Things are more communal in kampung. Children playing or hanging out with next door neighbour's children. Good times.











I like how the girls (child labours/workers/under 18???) are chilling and makan with menial works, while the Lao dude work under the sun building house.
Liberal, feminist, women's right fags must be proud of this.


Some of them are his wife's family members and fellow villagers.

This post has been edited by Meis: Jan 10 2024, 02:06 PM

If woman like you she can do anything for you.if don't like,pandang pun x ingin. My current partner is the 1 fetch me for dinner and always help to buy groceries for my place.i don't have car for my own use.

Name of port?

Same thing in Taiwan really.
The white privilege there is insane

That is good chemistry and understanding which powered by good healthy brains, and probably good education too. If she nags a lot like a lowbrow then you're fked.

Btw calling her a partner is better than the term wife.

This post has been edited by Meis: Jun 6 2023, 08:51 PM

Laos

RM12 = wholesome Char Siu rice (veggie included) + drink





more
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLPNn...Sa8p6rRtZeq6B7W

This post has been edited by Meis: Nov 5 2023, 04:57 PM

Myanmar





This post has been edited by Meis: Nov 5 2023, 05:06 PM