WHY.

What proof do you have??

I think they do not plan to have kids.

Kids really change a lot of life

TRUE enough.

Some kids arrive to 报答报恩，some do the 报复报仇 + 讨债抱怨。

As the saying goes 久病床前无孝子，but change the POV: most. Most parents if their kids have any problems or genetic conditions, they will do the 上刀山下火海 to get a cure or healer for their child.

before GE my life objective want ph win fed. now i happy.

No la…prefer yewtub …

I think the following REALIZATIONS came before GE:

My Christmas name is Adeline, given me by my primary 6 form teacher. It's meaning is "Noble serpent. Passionate, sensitive, unforgiving. Very moody temperament, yet she can be kind and charitable."

From my personal POV, my spiritual enlightenment is creating POETRY:

老痴呆

老人痴呆从哪来？
三言两语说不清，
容我作诗来道明。

做了坏事还害人，
骗过鬼神瞒了人，
无奈欺心终害己，
就会变成老痴呆。

一定变成老痴呆，
咎由自取老痴呆，
自作自受老痴呆。



BTW, I have changed the spelling of this Christmas name to Adelyyne. Mainly because I prefer the English and American pronunciation:



PS: Most people I know only seem to know the French pronunciation. But even though I don't quite YET know how to define myself: Hakka dad with Hokkien mum. (Can I be a little more creative and call myself Teochew or Hakkien?? 😂😂 )

I am definitely NOT French or even anything close to being an European.

PS: Another I would call it more "classic" POETRY:

超级白

曹操击败了李白，然后改名曹击白。

🤣🤣

This post has been edited by Adelyyne: Apr 9 2023, 08:33 PM

d idea is 2 clear as much karma debt as possible tis life time… lock 1 self up like tat helpful? Bring forward 2 next life ka? Oso they trouble their parents make them sad… how many Times kena reincarnate b4 qualify 4 Nirvana?

Btw v can reincarnate to other geographical locations… bad karma maybe reborn in 4th world countries, warring countries n suffer there… so bestest advice is try 2 clear as much karma debts as possible b4 v go…

u nonit ask la… universe will provide opportunities.. but if they dun make up 2 u then d karma debt will fall on them…. then next lives they gotta repay u 1 way or another ( they x necessarily resurface as ur parents… could b jilted lovers etc )

Different region different gawd, karma not applicable, some get check in to heaven or hell for eternity, you follow the membership T&C.

Others get virgin in afterlife

Legalize after certain age like above 70 or not healthy can proceed with euthanasia

No lah…karma ppl always say kids come to collect debt from parents. So hikikimori ppl just collecting their debt from parents, by limiting interaction with others, they avoid creating debts towards others, so less likely need to repay debt in another life hence no need further reincarnation

U make karma sound like never ending debt system

We're descendants of animals so our purpose is to breed. Don't think so much.

pay debts then die

N by repaying karma debt their parents now in better credit rating!

Meaning of life: as taught by Adelyyne to her two sons who are both in form 3 this year.

做人要对得起自己的良心，防人之心不可无，害人之心不可有。

I told my kids: when you are still in school, you must also work and study hard. Respect and obey your elders and teachers, so that you can reduce your regrets or sorrows after you reached adulthood. 少壮不努力，老大徒伤悲 type of regrets.

And even though there was one occasion when I was like a bit rude to their grandfather in front of my sons, I didn't explain to them very much. (Actually I can't remember if I mentioned anything about THAT incident to them at all or not??) If they came to accuse me of not practising what I preached in their adulthood or in future, I am already psychologically prepared to accept it!! (Anyway their grandfather had already passed away sometime late last year.)

As long as they have tried their best in their school work, I NEVER ever once made demands of them, such as you must get position number 1 (counting from the bottom) or get positions 10-20 (counting from the front). I told them this: as long as you put in the work, you can tell yourself 我对得起昨天的我，对得起当下的我，也对得起明日的我。 THAT is sufficient for them at their age because it already means 他们对得住自己的天地良心了。(I don't believe in giving too much pressures to my kids because I don't want the situation to become like the kid complaining that "my mom gives me too much stress, expecting me to be high achiever etc". I just want them to be happy and healthy.)

Fortunately I guess for us, their school results 还不至于满江红 la. I guess I must count my blessings that they are quite self motivated and not need too much adult supervision or nagging or reminders to do their school work.

PS: As for 害人之心不可有，防人之心不可无，I told them that at their age, there are some teens who got peers bullying. Because they stay at the school hostel on weekdays and only return home on the weekends, I was worried that some of them might do the campus bullying of peers as in a group of teens ganged up to punch, hit or kick one of the hostel mates?? So I have also given them detailed instructions on what to do if they met such situations.

I told them: you must leave the "scene of crime" immediately. If someone asked you why you are leaving, give an excuse such as "I have to go to the toilet". Then leave them and go tell an adult aka teacher. Don't stand there and stare as kids are sometimes prone to do when in shock or in some crisis. If you did that, the leader(s) of the bullies might notice that you haven't joined in with the hitting and kicking of the victim and he or they might challenge you "Hey! It's your turn. You must also hit him." Then you would be put in a spot.

And no need to try any heroic actions such as trying to stop the BULLYING or you might end up becoming the next target aka victim. Because in such situations, usually ONLY adults and teachers can help save the victim. If the victim doesn't know how to help himself la.

This post has been edited by Adelyyne: Apr 10 2023, 06:48 AM

x i say 1… u oso can gugle cek out urself ?… many caines dharma videos by monks everywhere… actuali can u understand mandarin/cantonese ahhh ? (can’t find English versions)

Sharing by seer

20years + in Christian community, i have been slowly leaving a bit by a bit.

life is all about paying bill / commitment, make safe investment, take care one self body and house, dont betray / cross people path , eat food, travel, work until die, enjoy whenever possible, keep out of family / work / friend politic , stay close with those ppl who really genuine care for you, not for your money and your fame and your beauty make up appearance, keep helping whenever it is possible , travel other country once in every 10 years or 5 years . As we know, human personality always change once a year.

This post has been edited by nelson969: Apr 9 2023, 10:55 PM

Life is a process of refinements.

For the one who believes in Fate, regardless how thing turn out to be in life, the plans by Heaven will never be affected. If the Heaven”s plan is never to be affected :-

Across the generations, the way of human living has improves. In ancient time , we hunt for foods but now we cultivate & farms our foods. It is a process of refinements. This refinements are almost in all aspects at the broader persective.

At the micro perseptive or individual level , it is a process of refinements as well. We are refining the process or way of livings to become better day by day. Some ppl may question if living is a refinements process , how come I failed to achieve what other ppl are achieving ? How am I a part of this refinements concept?

In life , it is not necessary about succes. It could be about failure. If your life decision making leads you to failure , your failure will serve as the lesson to the other individual in their life process refinements. We may not achieve what other ppl have achieve in the life but every decision that we made in the daily life will be part of the refinements process. If our life is leading a better way compare to the other ppl, it will also serves as a good example for the other to follow. Every aspects of living is self correcting & self improving over time.

If today an older generation have made a mistake in their life, the older generation will advice their next generation to avoid a similar mistake. It is a processs of refinements.

If today a town Planner made a mistake in town planning & causes the massive heavy traffic , the lesson learn will be used for the future town planning to avoid the similar mistake - it is a proceed of refinements.

If today an individual failed his/her marriage or didn”t manage to find their life partner - their life decision making which leads to their state can be used by the people of younger generation to prevent falling into such state. It is the process of refinements.

Human lifespan is short ~ about 80 years cycle , it could be intended in such way by Fate. We are not the generation of the very first beginning & do not know what were happened since the creation of world. There is always a room to either to doubt or believe, it is conditioned in such on purpose.

In life, we are subjected 6 desires and 7 emotions inevitably. If it is inevitable, it only means we are suppose to learn , deal & embrace it as part of living while in this world.

Regardless you make it or not make it in life, you happy or not happy , you are part of the refinements process in the broader persective.

This post has been edited by nihility: Apr 9 2023, 10:37 PM

Hi.

If I may point out a typo: 6 desires and 7 emotions.

七情六欲，对吗？