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 Narcissistic MIL, What you will do?

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corad
post May 2 2023, 08:55 PM

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QUOTE(@lice~~ @ Apr 28 2023, 01:49 PM)
No use because she was actually moved out from the elder son's house and to my house due to kwailan with them too. Yet she never admit she was wrong and claim that the elder son is useless didn't defend her and the DIL is bad. Like I mentioned before, she always right, she will give you tons of excuses to cover herself and blame to others. She can even tell lie direct in front of the person and make herself become the victim or act innocent.
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So it's just 2 sons or she has more kids ?

if it's your house, why not ask your parents to stay for a few weeks to "help with the grandkids" ? then your MIL can go back to her elder son.

obviously plan ahead so the situation is not heated, maybe just awkward so when MIL feels out of place she can find friends/her own siblings.

corad
post May 4 2023, 07:48 PM

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QUOTE(@lice~~ @ May 3 2023, 01:35 PM)
Can't work also because she already moved out from the elder son due to conflict and high chance she will not move back again due to "face" and dignity. Her elder daughter's house got "ghost" so she not dare to sleep alone. Younger daughter just recently move to Singapore. So nowhere she can go now.
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but she has her own place to stay ? if yes, persuade her to move back and arrange MIL own sibling / children to visit on a schedule ie Monday Eldest son , Tuesday 2nd Child etc

may need to get part time help / maid for her and everyone chip in for the cost or tapau food when visiting so not a burden to host so many "visitors"




 

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