No use. My husband always said he prioritize me over others, but when thing happens he always side his mother. Talk only, no action.

I am getting tired of this family

She treat it as her son's house even she well known who pay the most bills or maybe she just don't care at all. My house like a hotel to her, come and go as her wish. And me become like the tenant already.

Yes, 2 kids. No she seldom help take care my kids.

She can't. Technically the husband & wife already moved out & staying at their own house. The MIL now come to stay with them because the FIL already passed away.

If the old people really talk don't want to listen, be friend with them they don't appreciate & kwailan abit some more, they will find soon themselves the path to old folk home, that will be the usual stories public get to hear. Then what comes next will be the story about the char siew children alleged for mistreating their parent for sending them to old folk home.

The ending need not have to be such sad, go negotiate the better ending with the MIL. Not worth for such ending.

The best fate arrangement you could wish now - some neighbors / relative son send their parent to old folks home because the old ppl too kwailan. That incident will become a lesson for your MIL to tune down.