1. She think she always right. Even there is evidence to show it's her fault yet she push it to other people or said "I don't remember/forgot already"
2. Always cause disharmony between sibling and their spouse
3. She think she is the most important person in the family, need everyone attention and care.
4. Selfish
5. Lazy
6. Like gossip and "kepoh"- always monitor what we are doing
7. No common sense
8. She think her children are the best and others all useless
9. Hypocritical

Too many to write.. One word toxic person

     

This is actually a life circle.. we grew up.. we go to school .. we found a partner .. we start a family ..
yes normally the ladies will complain more than the guys because normally the wives follows the husbands. being a husband also isnt that easy because if the MIL and wife doesnt click, he will then have to handle two women very tactfully
now.. as we grow older.. we will too have kids.. and our kids starts his or her family. same situation if you son brings home a wife that you cant click.. then the table will be turned around.

A good one 

Well, not suddenly cannot accept the flaws. Back in that year, I stayed at their house (his parent's house) and now she stay at my house. When it's your own house for sure you have higher expectation on cleanness, tidyness and hygiene compare to other people's house and condition/situation have different already as I have children now and she might cause the bad influence on my kids. 

Over the 15 years she become worst or should I say I have not know the "real" her until she moved in my house and all the patterns show up. Even I did heard a lot of complaints from her own daughters and son-in-law before but when yourself facing its you still get the shock. Even her own son cannot tahan her and choose to go cafe to work rather then come back home earlier.

Well, i raise the case as nothing i can do now

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopi...ost&p=106997639 refer here

My expectation is since we are staying in the same house so we should helping each other. Like helping doing the laundry and some light household chores. No i didn't expect her to mop or sweeping the floor or any hard works. She will only do those household chore when I am at home and purposely do it in front of me. When clothes are dry, she only take hers inside and left ours out there.

Collect stacks of old newspaper and put it nicely and not blocking the way, I still fine but ensure don't make a mess or cause more problem at later time