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Narcissistic MIL, What you will do?
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AthrunIJ
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Apr 26 2023, 04:33 PM
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As one of the forummer said.
Move out.
I did. So much better. In my case is my mum. Everything is others fault and not hers.
Now she is almost begging me to move back in which I refused.
Just visit on special occasions like birthday etc.
Good ruck to you
This post has been edited by AthrunIJ: Apr 26 2023, 04:36 PM
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AthrunIJ
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Apr 26 2023, 04:45 PM
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QUOTE(@lice~~ @ Apr 26 2023, 04:41 PM) If only my husband willing to do so. According to my husband, have been talking/advise her multiple times but no cure. The current house is my house not her, so it's her to move out and she have no where to go. And my husband sympathy her and not dare to ask her out worry being unfaithful son. The one way is for me to shut myself mentally when around her when living together. It does make the message go across. Only talk when the matter is important.
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AthrunIJ
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Apr 26 2023, 04:52 PM
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QUOTE(@lice~~ @ Apr 26 2023, 04:50 PM) Like 2 stranger living in the same house? Ya, I am in this phase too, stop talking or listening to her. Keep it short and clear. Yep. Since its your house. You have a say in house matters. Don't ask her for opinions. Your house your rules. Done.
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AthrunIJ
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Apr 26 2023, 05:26 PM
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QUOTE(@lice~~ @ Apr 26 2023, 05:00 PM) She treat it as her son's house even she well known who pay the most bills or maybe she just don't care at all. My house like a hotel to her, come and go as her wish. And me become like the tenant already. Liek I said. There are times you will need to put your foot down. And again all the best to you. No easy dealing with all these people.
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