No matter how many 10 years for me to prepare, the ending still the same, hardly can accept

If only I see the red flag back in the 15 years ago and make some changes or different choice

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopi...ost&p=106997639 refer here

My expectation is since we are staying in the same house so we should helping each other. Like helping doing the laundry and some light household chores. No i didn't expect her to mop or sweeping the floor or any hard works. She will only do those household chore when I am at home and purposely do it in front of me. When clothes are dry, she only take hers inside and left ours out there.

Collect stacks of old newspaper and put it nicely and not blocking the way, I still fine but ensure don't make a mess or cause more problem at later time

Not to say scold lah, he did sound her and her answer always like "i didn't do so", "i worry your wife don't likes it", "i forgot"...

Like today my husband sounded her being so selfish and never think/care about others, she gave tons of excuses like "you misunderstand me", "i don't know", "i just simply asking/saying only no any intention" and try to change topic..