QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Feb 1 2023, 10:21 AM)
So after so much bickering in Dating Apps and real life experiences, I have come to 1 conclusion,
GIRLS AT ANY AGE GROUP WILL FOCUS MORE ON LOOKS AND IF NO LOOKS, THE GUY MUST BE LOADED.
And when I mean Looks, I mean the born good looking ones. Even if you not good looking but you buff up / gym up, it's not gonna work (especially at the 30s).
Why I said so above? A few girls told me directly even if I became buff up, my face still cannot so they may not date me (means won't la) and they also said that even if the guy isn't buff or slim but got good looks, even chubby all they can accept.
So it goes down to, what is left for people like me? Where do I find girls now?
I mean it applies both ways man, guys also focus more on girls looks, if no looks then must know how to dress or have nice body.GIRLS AT ANY AGE GROUP WILL FOCUS MORE ON LOOKS AND IF NO LOOKS, THE GUY MUST BE LOADED.
And when I mean Looks, I mean the born good looking ones. Even if you not good looking but you buff up / gym up, it's not gonna work (especially at the 30s).
Why I said so above? A few girls told me directly even if I became buff up, my face still cannot so they may not date me (means won't la) and they also said that even if the guy isn't buff or slim but got good looks, even chubby all they can accept.
So it goes down to, what is left for people like me? Where do I find girls now?
If a girl isn't good looking and doesn't have curves, even if she go gym/lose weight you probably also won't want her what.
Don't listen to what those girls tell you, when you're physically fit you will most likely look your best, do it for yourself.
Focus on improving yourself(Get fitter, more mature, improve your social skills, increase your income, invest for your future etc) and enjoying your life while making more friends with girls, eventually you'll find one.
Feb 17 2023, 10:05 PM

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