GIRLS AT ANY AGE GROUP WILL FOCUS MORE ON LOOKS AND IF NO LOOKS, THE GUY MUST BE LOADED.

Er your post regarding Chinese not so accurate. Again as I said so many of my friends making RM5k, now engage or already married.

However money does help. The girl need to feel that you can proceed for her and the kid.

If you want to display your inner beauty, you need a lot of time exposure. A lot of time exposure means your potential candidate can only comes from the places you appear daily - like work places, your living community / neighbors , religious house, hobby club, etc. Anything outside of this, you will not get your time exposure &  you will not be able to display the inner beauty.

It’s ok to not have the best looks in the world, but u have to learn to be presentable through other means like fashion and stuffs, most girls would notice that, if u don’t do that, that’s on u

As for money, u attract gold diggers, but they won’t last long, so not really that important as compared to presentability and personality

Closest examples I have seen are some influencers have not so good looking bf, but they Definitely look presentable undeniably, but I don’t if they are together because of money, but def presentable, and or personality

For all the posters, thanks so much. Yeah, found her from CMB and we are quite in sync with one another. Lucky I didn't give up on the apps.