Aug 6 2024, 02:28 AM
QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Aug 5 2024, 09:54 AM)
I believe there isn't much balance we can achieve here. Here's how I look at it:
You can spend 20 hrs of your time to work and earn money say 5 figures a month and you don't have time for yourself so you end up looking old, haggard and crapped out OR
You can spend 8 hrs of your time to work and earn money say 4 figures a month and you spend the rest going gym, sleep, healthy routines etc and you will look much better than the former.
BUT
Girls will complain the FIRST guy doesn't look good while complaining SECOND guy doesn't have enough money (if she is a damn gold digger).
I'd say, finding someone who really appreciates small things you do for her is of utmost important. If you see those entitled ones or those never be satisfied by what you can give ones, should better run fast away from them.
Just wanted to weigh in on this topic from another perspective, not trying to brag or anything.You can spend 20 hrs of your time to work and earn money say 5 figures a month and you don't have time for yourself so you end up looking old, haggard and crapped out OR
You can spend 8 hrs of your time to work and earn money say 4 figures a month and you spend the rest going gym, sleep, healthy routines etc and you will look much better than the former.
BUT
Girls will complain the FIRST guy doesn't look good while complaining SECOND guy doesn't have enough money (if she is a damn gold digger).
I'd say, finding someone who really appreciates small things you do for her is of utmost important. If you see those entitled ones or those never be satisfied by what you can give ones, should better run fast away from them.
I am lucky to be able to work 8hrs, earn a good amount and spend the rest of my time doing things I like. This has allowed me to be "interesting", fit, dress well. I am also tall but thats just genetics. Wouldnt consider myself the best looking guy, but decent enough.
There are studies which say in online dating (OLD), the top 10% men get 60-80% of all matches. From my experience OLD is easy, I could get 15-20 matches a week from swiping casually. I am even making it harder for myself by only going for non-asian girls (ive posted my matches previously on the forum) and the stats remain the same. So much for Asian guys not being desired eh.
For myself the negative aspect is that there are too many options, hence the need to keep wanting to explore for someone higher up the value chain. Which is pretty toxic tbh.
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