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TSrootkid P
post Jan 29 2023, 01:19 AM, updated 3y ago

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Just got to know this girl a month now, and so far went out 4 times, going to meet again next week.
she will receive an opputunity to work oversea if not already got it during CNY break.

feel she is interested in me, but not until strong romantic attraction.
i am not sure if its good idea to confess on next date because of above, and preferably i would like to know each other better first.
but if i dun confess now, then may be too late after she makes up her mind for oversea.

to all cupid sifus, pls shed light on ayam icon_question.gif unsure.gif
TSrootkid P
post Jan 29 2023, 10:28 AM

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thanks guys, let me try tell her i think of her subconsciously from time to time in last few days n see how it goes first before decide confess or not.

i hope this can works, but if not, i will at least have the answer not to regret later on.
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post Jan 29 2023, 10:38 AM

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QUOTE(CyrusWong @ Jan 29 2023, 01:51 AM)
follow your feeling

i confess to a girl before she resign. and during my confess i mention that i just want to express my feeling, i have no intention to escalate our relationship. reason being my career still at bottom and cant see our future.

i have mixed feeling after confess. happy and down at same time.

but after half a year now, i have no regret.

if you are very sure on your feeling, just confess. dont let it become your regret later in your life.
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interesting thought process.
may i ask the reason behind wanting to express feeling since u dun expect any change to the relationship?
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post Jan 29 2023, 03:05 PM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Jan 29 2023, 11:19 AM)
You need to understand this is overseas. Not another state. Is she coming back or she going off for good? If she's going off for good, can you follow her?

If you think you can follow her, yes persue it. If not just forget about it.
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yet to decide, more like try n see how.
i will not persuade her to either stay or go, it’s her decision, she’s capable n mature enough to decide.

only to make it clear the possibility to take this relationship further.

 

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