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Ramjade
post Jan 29 2023, 02:17 AM

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QUOTE(rootkid @ Jan 29 2023, 01:19 AM)
Just got to know this girl a month now, and so far went out 4 times, going to meet again next week.
she will receive an opputunity to work oversea if not already got it during CNY break.

feel she is interested in me, but not until strong romantic attraction.
i am not sure if its good idea to confess on next date because of above, and preferably i would like to know each other better first.
but if i dun confess now, then may be too late after she makes up her mind for oversea.

to all cupid sifus, pls shed light on ayam  icon_question.gif  unsure.gif
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Do you think you can make LDR work? If yes just show her. Hold her hands.

If no, just let go. Not worth it for both of you.
Ramjade
post Jan 29 2023, 11:19 AM

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QUOTE(rootkid @ Jan 29 2023, 10:28 AM)
thanks guys, let me try tell her i think of her subconsciously from time to time in last few days n see how it goes first before decide confess or not.

i hope this can works, but if not, i will at least have the answer not to regret later on.
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You need to understand this is overseas. Not another state. Is she coming back or she going off for good? If she's going off for good, can you follow her?

If you think you can follow her, yes persue it. If not just forget about it.
Ramjade
post Jan 29 2023, 03:10 PM

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QUOTE(rootkid @ Jan 29 2023, 03:05 PM)
yet to decide, more like try n see how.
i will not persuade her to either stay or go, it’s her decision, she’s capable n mature enough to decide.

only to make it clear the possibility to take this relationship further.
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It's not about taking relationship further. It's about being practical. So what if she said she likes you if she's not coming back to Malaysia and you cannot follow her. Do you think it can work out? Of course not.
If you can follow her then yes it's a different story.

For a LDR to workout, one person will have to go to the other person in the future. That's no other way around it.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Jan 29 2023, 03:12 PM

 

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