I am in the dont confess camp.

What is it really that u want to confess anyway?

That you are in love with her? Thats too strong n too early, might even creep her out n blow any chance.

Or you want to confess that you like her? Bro, u have gone out with her 4 times. Probably have texted her a lot too. Women are not stupid. From your actions, she already knows that u like her.

The question that you want answer to is whether she likes you back. I think this is the real reason you want to confess. You want your feelings of insecurity addressed by confronting her and hope that she respond favorably.

There is a better way to do this. Some bros above have alluded to it. Its by your physical touch. That is your confession to her. If she allows or positively reacts, thats her confession back to you. Work on this and do it right.

There is still a risk of rejection, but I would say it works better than a verbal confession out of the blue. Once physical intimacy starts, verbal confession follows usually quite fast.