my dad had an affair, even though he provides for the family, he made my mom suffer a lot.. me and my sister hated him.. but now we already adult we let the past be the past.. and looking back, at least he did provides for the family.. but we never forget what he did to our mom.. so will u b ok if your kids harbor ill feeling towards you? every actions have consequences, if you wanna keep the affair going, do expect your family to find out sooner or later.. and since she's a married woman, do expect her husband gonna do something to you, sue you, fight you or worst, kill you.. will you be ok to face all of this?