OK before people lash out on me, listen to me. This is not talking about hot vs not hot.

Remember beauty and looks are on the beholder.

Let's just say a guy likes nerd looking girls (wearing specs and stuffs). He meets a girl who is opposite of Nerd but he seems to be able to click with her, is it ok for the guy to date her?

On the women side, say a lady likes guys who isn't rounded (not fat but average) but she met a guy and click with him who is quite rounded, should she date him?

My argument here is that I feel most of us will take FIRST IMPRESSION as an important judging factor.

Like, if you see a guy / girl and you think they good looking from first glance, chances are they your type.

But if you see a guy / girl and you think they not so good looking, chances are they not your type (aesthetically).

So if a person don't seem to be good looking to you but end up you feel the click, should you date him/her?

My feeling here: If I were to date the person, will I like pick on her (being not aesthetically my type) in the future?

So what do you guys think?