TS question seem to me is: Should he date a girl that he is not physically attracted to?

My answer = No.

Reason = You are leading the girl on. Down the road, there will likely be drama, heart break and you will feel shitty.

50% looks 50% personality

Thats kind of a suprise for me that a girl will rank looks so high.

What if he is poor?

A handsome charming and witty Grab rider?

Can date u?


This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Dec 2 2022, 09:40 PM

So I met this one girl on Tinder.

Physical wise, passable based on photos. Personality wise we click.

So we went out for first date. Realised that the photos were a bit misleading 😓

But hey.. she has good personality. Maybe attraction will come later right?

So we still went out. At the same time, i was also going out with other girls.

Then later I met someone who tick ALL the boxes and MORE.

I broke the news to her gently as I could.

What followed were many long winded sob texts, phone calls at inappropriate times, voice recordings.

Finally, I had to block her. Feel bad about it.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Dec 5 2022, 12:06 PM

You will need to go out with a person a few times to know the person.

For the first girl, I will say she ticked the minimum criteria but the physical part was below expectations. I ignored the physical part at first as she shared some common interest and it was fun with her. However, the attraction never became strong even after several meet ups. And probably because of low attraction, some other things started to grate me as she became more needy.

The second girl who i met later, is physically more attractive (subjective). She is also the very feminine type, which wasnt my consideration before, but now I like 😍 . The attraction hit me like a bus.

Good saying..i think its accurate.

Compatibility and character can also degrade over time.

Just ask all the divorcees here..

As for looks, with the right lifestyle and a bit of medical.help, a girl can be hot into her 40s and even 50s.

Not saying this is more important than characther tho..

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Dec 12 2022, 11:06 PM

Of course, 18-25 are prime years for a woman. Biologically speaking even.

But there are still attractive women in 40s. N yeah, normally they have wealthy husbands and have the time n money to look after themselves well.

I see Ramjade's potential to be a wealthy husband, being so active in investment forum.. 😉

Ok with hobbies

But i find dating multiple girls is very tiring.

I know someone..has 3 longer term gf and several short term ones, at one time. I dont know where he get the energy and time.

That's why I started my sentence with "But for me".

Not judging n I have dated multiple girls before.

Probably an age thing as well 😆

Before

Now only limited to platonic dates 😃

Maybe thats too much pressure for a first date?

What about just be friends and see how it goes?