It's laughable that someone is trying to proclaim his righteous living and raising up the issue of morality in particular sexual sins. Any way who ask and neither are we interested in whatever sins you were bound in. God is not interested either in putting out dirty linen and certainly not in the business of shaming and embarrassing people because of their sin. But sin is sin and His holiness endures forever. God instead brings mans attention to his bondage to sin as a fact he is an unregenerate sinner in need of forgiveness and cleansing(freedom) from sin.He highlights the problem of sin because He desires to forgive and free the sinner of their sin. His motive is always redemptive and not for personal vendetta. Actually the one that accuses a person to condemn such is no less Satan who is also called the accuser of the brethren. And those who boast of their moral standards are no less the Pharisees. When we boast we are in danger of falling.
So we speak of those things which we know are true in Christ. Not that it serves to validate us but our aim is that the Word of God is validated.
In truth if one has an issue of sin in their personal life they aught not to be teaching the Holy Scriptures. It is presumption to do so. Take a sabbatical, have a rest and deal with the issue of sin first.Once you have overcome then share your experience but not as that which entitles you to say whatever you fancy. In the OT the priest wore on their headgear the words "holiness to the Lord" as a reminder of how they were to carry themselves in their service to God.
As one who was unsaved once I have had my share of the sins that entangles mankind so easily. But after my conversion it was clear to me the issue of sin and how believing the Gospel of Christ  affords the believer both pardon and freedom from sin. Otherwise it would be strange that God only pardoned but did not set us free from sin. But as surely as the Israelites were saved by the blood of that first passover lamb and were also surely delivered from their bondage under the hand of Pharaoh, so no less every person that is saved by God. Being freed from sin is not some kind of wishful thinking for the born again believer but is the direct result of the indwelling Spirit of God. The law of the Spirit of life in Christ sets us free from the law of sin and death. Just like you don't have to convince your self mentally that the laws of sin and death exist so too there is no need to psyche one up on the reality of the law of the Spirit. Otherwise its like trying to convince ourselves on the existence of the law of gravity. Law operate independent of one's state of mind. In fact a person's mind changes so often it would be utmost unreliable to base any kind of truth on the function of one's mind and especially so when referring to the issue of one salvation. The scripture is very clear :faith, salvation, forgiveness, deliverance from sin are all realities that have been forged in the realm of one's spirit. Otherwise even a child could not be saved except for the likes of a professor. But we see Christ tells us differently that unless we become as little children we could not enter his kingdom. We are saved by the revelation of God's truth as something that must transact in the spirit of a person  and not just in the mind. And that which is in the spirit of a man must necessarily guide his behaviour and this being the reason we argue that faith must go hand in hand with obedience as obeying the one we believe in. We cannot be said to only believe Christ where he speaks on the forgiveness of sins but at the same time refuse when he taught on matters such as sin, hell, repentance, wealth, relationship, prayer, marriage, servant hood, his deity, stewardship, the nature of God and His kingdom, the matters of the last day's etc etc etc. There is no such thing as selective faith as far as the scripture is concerned. To believe in Christ is to have complete trust in him  who is no less very God himself. And no man could call another God save he is willing to submit in faith to every thing that concerns Him who is God. Otherwise then God be no longer God. In this case who really is god but the unrepentant sinner himself.
So these brings to a close all I need to say in this thread as I observe some are adamant to propagate false doctrines here. To such let me bring your attention to the warning and judgement that awaits all false teachers as stated in Rev 2:20-23.

None of the saints are in heaven yet.

Question is: Is Abraham's bosom or Sheol heaven?

[Anyway, back to relationship, do you know, you need set aside a time to spend time with God?
You need to get used to spending time with God and I can tell you, this takes effort. It's not easy at first but as you practise doing this frequently, it gets easier.

Start from small. Couple of minutes. Don't look down on even 1 or 2 minutes. <==Consider it as important.

Once you get used to the few minutes then slowly expand your time to 5 minutes, then 10 mins, later 15 mins you get the idea.

If you don't know what to pray or say, just read the Bible in those quiet time with God. When you have the urge to pray, then pray.

My advice is this.

Before you begin, pray ask for the Holy Spirit to pray with you and through you. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you in communion with God the Father.

Then fire away, read the Bible while your mind is on God all the time. If feel like praying, let it out. 
Note: Spending time with God should only involve you and God so find a place, can be in car, room, wherever possible.

Has anyone heard of the chosen ones? what i've been experiencing since a few years ago matches the signs, i'm not even christian

Some people know about the chosen ones and can sense us, out of envy some of them try to convince us that we are no different, but some of them aid us because they want to be a part of it. I am not aware of any superior trait I have, I wasn’t even Christian and I’m not a bible hugger, maybe Christianity isn’t relevant at all, nobody knows why we are chosen except the universe itself

I take note you're talking from Buddhist POV. Keyword = Suffering. I'm  familiar with such argument.

Not so for Christians. We have the second Adam (Christ Jesus)

John 10:10 (NIV) - The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

All born again children of God are restored back to what was lost by Adam. We are secured by God himself.

All sufferings and the system of this fallen world will end with new Heaven and Earth.

Your argument is lopsided.

No. Actually our conscience, character, emotions & especially our intellect comes from the brain.

That has all been proven by science. You have received a very poor education.

If certain areas of your brain are damaged, you cannot even experience certain emotions, like fear, happiness, etc.

You cannot even form proper sentences if your brain is damaged.

If you have a ‘soul’, you should have no problems behaving normally, even if your brain is damaged. How come that is not the case?

Do you know that some people experience severe personality changes after a stroke?

Memory can also be affected, if your brain is damaged. Have you seen what dementia does to a person?

Why would that be a problem, if all your memories are stored in your ‘soul’?

Answer me, what is spirit? Have you seen a spirit? How do you measure spirit? How do you proof you have one?

What is a soul?  Have you seen a soul?  How do you measure a soul?  How do you proof you have one?

How do you proof that an unbeliever has a dead spirit, but yours is ‘alive’?

You are not making any sense! It’s when people like you, who passes off such foolish statements as ‘facts’, that gives us Christians a bad name.

Stop making outrageous & unproven claims. Claims are not evidence.

true Christian this, true Christian that,    . . . . yeah, I agree that we should always be humble, but what we shouldn't do, is to check our brains at the door, before entering church 

do you notice all the highlighted parts in red?

'weak', 'don't use wisdom' ( might as well say = dumb), a 'nobody', 'wretched soul'. In a nutshell, basically self-denigrating.

YOU portray the psyche of the modern day Christian to the tee.

But that is to be expected, as the pulpit teaches against any sound epistemology, even critical thinking.

It does not teach that faith should be based on evidence; it teaches that faith should NEVER be based on evidence. (blue)

Walk by faith and not by sight, right?

Reliable reasoning, principles of analysis & formal logic is explicitly condemned & frowned upon all over scripture.

It is written, “I will destroy the wisdom of the wise. And I will reject as spurious the discernment of the discerning.” Where is the wise man? Where is the scribe? Where is the investigator of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world? For since through its wisdom the world did not know God, in God’s wisdom He thought it was a good idea to save the believers through the foolishness of His teaching. Because the Jews ask for signs and the Greeks search for wisdom, but we teach Christ crucified. - 1 Cor 1:19-27

Do not deceive yourselves. If any of you think you are wise by the standards of this age, you should become “fools” so that you may become wise. 19 For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in God’s sight. As it is written: “He catches the wise in their craftiness”[a]; 20 and again, “The Lord knows that the thoughts of the wise are futile. - 1 Cor 3:18-20

Now about food sacrificed to idols: We know that “We all possess knowledge.” But knowledge puffs up while love builds up. 2 Those who think they know something do not yet know as they ought to know. - 1 Cor 8:1 -2


Some better examples, the Bible teaches that God punished Zacharias, by striking him mute, merely for requesting evidence - Luke 1:18-20

Doubting Thomas is appeased by such a request, but immediately is shamed by having those who believe without evidence praised as better than him - John 20:24-29

The rich man begging Abraham to send Lazarus to give his relatives evidence enough to believe is shamed for even asking, and told the scriptures should be evidence enough -  Luke 16:19-31  Rich Man & Lazarus

When the Jews ask “for a sign” (otherwise known as evidence), Jesus condemns as immoral the very idea of asking for evidence
- Matthew 12:38-39    The Sign of Jonah

Human “reasoning” must therefore be “cast down” along with everything else that is held up against “the knowledge of God” and in their place we must “bring every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ”. Right? That's what you have been taught, right?

That is why the unbelieving world view us as kooks & crackpots. You can have faith, but please don't practice blind faith.

Ask questions. As believers, it's okay for us to ask questions.

Okay, good nite guys, church 2molo 

Oh yeah, & one last thing, I take issue to what you said here. While honesty is certainly commendable & admirable, what do you mean exactly by Christians can't stop sinning??!! 

If Christians still continue sinning after coming to saving faith, how different are we from the unbelieving world, then?

What difference is there between a believer & an unbeliever?

What is your saving faith, then? Most importantly, what where you saved from? 

There must be a contrast between those who follow Christ & those who belong to the world.

For the Bible says, you will know them by their fruits.  Comon!

Sorry to see that you think that the Old Testament is just about laws.
Without the prophets and prophecies would you know your God and His Messiah?
Without the prophets and prophecies, would you know God's salvation and redemption plans?
Without the Law and the prophets, where would the New Covenant be?