at the end of day, at its core, women still prefer men more capable than herself, despite there is nothing wrong with u earning lesser than her and be ok with it, plus dont mind taking care the household things.
i met my fair share of super capable women at my work place, most of them either single for life or divorced, sad to say u might not survive this statistic
her reason for divorce is probably just made up too, she may simply just want something better, not necessarily means she is seeing someone

u either make the choice of stepping up your game by playing catch up with her or cut the loss
after all women nowadays are very capable, existence of men are becoming less and less relevant if you're not up to standard, think hard, what is the value of men (or yourself) if women is going to be with you? one of the obvious answer is to provide resource, and in your situation that is taken cared by your wife, so what else do you bring to table? household things? that's a good thing but only if u do it once in a while, the correct image for u is supposed to be earning more than her and elevate her life experience, no girls like to take up that role, it just feels like a man than a woman

my close friend just ended his 10 year relationship because the GF surpassed him at earning, when she asked him about the future, he couldnt promise anything, cant even afford to get a home, a home of their own is the deal breaker for her and she chose to leave. i was truly hoping this close friend of mine can prove me wrong that her GF is different, at the end still the same sad ending that ive seen many times

stay strong brother

This post has been edited by Sasuke95: Oct 25 2022, 10:52 PM