QUOTE(callmecool @ Aug 18 2022, 06:34 PM)
would appreciate if someone can speak some sense to me and advices. thank you!
I studied in Singapore and worked there for 4 years to serve my tuition grant bond. Then, I was offered a position in KL with my Singapore pay. I came back for a while before going to Hong Kong. After spending almost 15 years overseas, kind of enlightened that I should spend more time with my ageing parents. So, I returned to Malaysia again when an MNC offered me a contract equivalent to my HK package.
If your skillset is always in demand and universal, your package should be the same regardless of locations. This is like iPhone, you pay the same retail price in KL and Singapore. If we indulge too much in the advantages of the 3.x exchange rate, then our mind-set is like the price of chicken rice, paying SGD 4.20 in Singapore vs paying RM 8 in KL.
I suggest you should get to know more expatriates in KL, a lot of them are getting the same packages they get from their employers back in US and Europe – even they are hired by local Malaysian companies. Coming over here, their employers pay for their accommodations, children education, car and etc.
So, if you are young, your parents are healthy, go and explore the world. One day, you will have the chance to come back here with the same package like what you earn in other countries.
Malaysian workforces generally reject employment in contract. Actually, most of the senior positions in public listed companies or GLC are on contract basis. For me, when I had enough capitals, I started my business. This would be very difficult if I stayed in Singapore. Over there, I probably had to pay for the expensive private property. Most of my uni friends are still working. When you are in Singapore, look at their fast food outlet, you won't be surprised to see many senior citizens working there as the cashier. But, back here, most of senior citizens stop work after 60 years old.
I met my wife and decided to settle here. Malaysia has improved a lot comparing to the time I returned, it is a great place to raise a family. Properties, health care, education, car are all cheaper than Singapore. My children studied in Chinese primary schools – they learn their culture and root. This is something you could not find in Singapore or anywhere else outside Greater China circles. My children studied in private schools – learn at their phases without pressures. This would be a luxury if you are in Singapore. Most people send their kids to government schools in Singapore. They have streaming – express vs normal. I guess Singapore government already realized something not right and this streaming process will cease by 2024.
At the places I stay, there are many Korean, Japanese and Mainland Chinese here. All are young parents and holding MM2H visas. I am sure they also have the same conclusions - properties, health care, education, cars, living expenses are all cheaper here. And, most importantly, they find people here are generally friendlier and relax. Only politicians want the people to hate each others. Once we ignore these politicians, this place is fantastic.
So, if you are 31, no harm to go out and don’t just set Singapore as the only alternative. Explore Shanghai, Hong Kong or other cities. Come back when you have gained the experiences.
This post has been edited by ongss: Aug 19 2022, 01:23 PM