150 per pax still ok.
300 i rather say i kena kobis cant attend.
Pack Wedding Ang Pow need RM300?, What you all say?
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QUOTE(amboi_asamboi @ Jun 30 2022, 04:46 PM) Normally receive invitation even if dont go also must pay a token sum RM50-100 I realise this thing too. It's like some sort of emotional blackmail.Some couple would ask first, as a courtesy. They also don’t want to send invitation if the guest cant make it. Some just send, and ask people to RSVP. If confirmed going but cant make it, the seat is already reserved so must pay too Yes it is a troublesome thing  |
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My wedding I spent nearly 90k.
Didn't even expect any money back. So what? Everyone had a great time |
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Cheapskate to make gain to cover wedding costs. Not enough money just register with JPN and tea ceremony. No need wedding banquet and honeymoon. Don't piap wife until pregnant since not enough money.
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Jun 30 2022, 04:52 PM
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Jun 30 2022, 04:23 PM) My question is, can reject wedding invites wan meh? Why not? I've never attended >90% of weddings despite being invited. |
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Ktard standard angpow 888
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Jun 30 2022, 04:53 PM
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QUOTE(andylyc @ Jun 30 2022, 04:51 PM) Cheapskate to make gain to cover wedding costs. Not enough money just register with JPN and tea ceremony. No need wedding banquet and honeymoon. Don't piap wife until pregnant since not enough money. in my opinion, most of the time is the parents want not they want. kena forced by parents to do also big issue. Got 1 time, I heard my uncle said to the son "Son, dun care you wu lui or bo lui, u need to have a reputable banquet so that ppl will give me face" |
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QUOTE(Darkspreader @ Jun 30 2022, 04:26 PM) Most kelik invite me i just decline, unless reli close keliks. Dulu market rate 100 now already 200 ka?If go aso i bagi RM200 angpow cz i stingy |
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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Jun 30 2022, 04:52 PM) Why not? I've never attended >90% of weddings despite being invited. Because like someone said, even reject to go must pay some costs |
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Jun 30 2022, 04:27 PM) 200 a lot le walao QUOTE(miromiro @ Jun 30 2022, 04:32 PM) Rm200 is alot Zaman dulu-dulu in my 20s i used to gib only RM100, but when i tell my parents they scold me say xia suay, so stingy.Stingy is Rm1 or not even brother to give angpow.. So now minimum i give RM200 for acquintance/keliks, RM500 for normal friends/distant relative, RM888 for close friends/relatives, RM1k above for families. |
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Jun 30 2022, 04:54 PM
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QUOTE(Naruko @ Jun 30 2022, 04:52 PM) Ktard standard angpow 888 88.80 can? |
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Angpow is a form of gift, is voluntary, is not a obligation. Hence, could be any amount. It is the host decision on location and price, couldn't expect guests to pay. if the host doesn't want to loss money, should host at cheaper price else the host should pay. wawasan2200 liked this post
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Jun 30 2022, 04:55 PM
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Jun 30 2022, 04:53 PM) Because like someone said, even reject to go must pay some costs Thats where the red boom coined frm eh. |
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Jun 30 2022, 04:23 PM) https://says.com/my/fun/netizen-says-dont-g...a-rm300-ang-pow ikut kemampuan.Link above. The original poster said if cannot give RM300, dun attend or dun agree to attend. My question is, can reject wedding invites wan meh? i come alone or with left hand, u expect RM1000, I rather go eat nothing, freeload. u invite me, u didnt ask directly for payment tearsofme liked this post
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Jun 30 2022, 04:56 PM
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QUOTE(Lucas0323 @ Jun 30 2022, 04:53 PM) Dulu market rate 100 now already 200 ka? Adjusted for inflation |
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QUOTE(Lucas0323 @ Jun 30 2022, 04:55 PM) Thats where the red boom coined frm eh. I guess so. |
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Give Giant voucher RM30 enough.
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Jun 30 2022, 04:57 PM
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Highest I have ever given for a wedding is USD 100 (actual US note) for a best friend's wedding. Yh venue and food not fantastic.
Others, maybe RM 100-200 max or depending on venue. If like Hilton KL or better, at least RM 300. |
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Jun 30 2022, 04:23 PM) https://says.com/my/fun/netizen-says-dont-g...a-rm300-ang-pow Just give excuse and reject.Link above. The original poster said if cannot give RM300, dun attend or dun agree to attend. My question is, can reject wedding invites wan meh? Apa susah? This kind of abeng weeding destroys the culture. |
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Jun 30 2022, 04:53 PM) Because like someone said, even reject to go must pay some costs No. Tell the bride or the groom don't give you the "red bomb" as that day you have other appointment. Tell them earlier before they drop the bomb on you. |
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