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sammm33
post Apr 25 2022, 02:04 AM

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just look at the road and how people drive / ride

there ady full of crazy and mental people
sammm33
post Apr 25 2022, 02:48 PM

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QUOTE(BrookLes @ Apr 25 2022, 09:56 AM)
Actually I feel this way as well.

People are driving extremely slow these days.

And they do not seem to respond when I honk them. Maybe they understand that they are the ones at fault but still cannot control themselves.

I dunno. Do you feel that way?
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this is interesting. i feel the totally opposite.

i assume you from a more rural state,
in selangor , people drive / ride like mad racer.
definitely more people is speeding unnecessary on the road.

almost all of them cut lane with no signal, some cutting the lane last minute when other vehicle is very close to them.
so you will feel very unsafe with these driver / rider on the road , this is also the main reason i get a driving/riding video recorder.

most people show lese compassion and have less patient when on the road
and they simply do not care the other people that using the road.
this society is getting more sick by the day .

i did meet a few that drive extremely slow, but will honk depend which lane they hogging.
if at the most right lane then yes confirm honk.
no response is either they dono some one honk them , or they just pretend did not hear you honk them.
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post Apr 25 2022, 06:15 PM

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now you mention , i did notice some drive at 80 at highway or slower
but i think that is the supposed speed limit, not sure.

but this is ok for me since most of them at either the most left or mid lane
some time when i dont feel like going fast , i will just tailgate one of these vehicle at mid lane

i use to go fast for most of the time, due to rushing to work
but after experience go slow on the road, i notice i save more on fuel, and much more relax experience.
just need to readjust the time i start from my place, slightly earlier a bit from previous.

also try take some deep breath when you feel like annoyed by these slow cucumber, or before you start driving, this helps me a lot.

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post Apr 26 2022, 03:55 AM

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QUOTE(Singh_Kalan @ Apr 25 2022, 09:08 PM)
Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.
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QUOTE(BrookLes @ Apr 25 2022, 11:43 PM)
I dunno. I was in Singapore for a few years. This really slow type of driving is something I only experienced recently. Granted road is narrow, but like I said, even a cyclist moves faster then the cars. I seriously think it's like what you said selfishness etc.

I do not think narcissism is a mental disorder but a personality one.
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workplace have this type of people.

they will act pity to get close to you, will do anything to get close to their target.

but after get to know each other, you will will notice this person seeks nothing but attention and demand respect from others.

will think nothing but for them self only , very selfish and totally lack of empathy for others.
always complain about others all the time , but think self is a perfect human being, and never have an ounce of self awareness that the cause is them self.

when some one tegur them, they will pretend they understand but after awhile will repeat the same bs again.

my advice is , if you have the unfortunate to meet one of these "special people" , avoid them like a plague.
you can try advice them , but for my case, non of my or others advice reach this person, but yet they will keep coming up with excuse and demand more attention / sympathy from others.

me and other colleagues are too kind to share our kindness but fact proven this TOTAL waste of time.
these mental people , who high chance is indeed a person with narcissistic personality disorder, need special advice from professional people , not your kindness or advice from amateur. And depend on condition , most likely need to be on meds.

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sammm33
post Apr 26 2022, 04:00 AM

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QUOTE(BrookLes @ Apr 25 2022, 11:40 PM)
Actually driving slow uses more fuel
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my understanding is when drive/ride slow , around 80 - 90 kmh, improve fuel consumption.
this is why taxi driver drove around this speed range.
this speed proven to have better fuel consumption.

can share what do you mean by "slow uses more fuel" , just incase your definition of slow drive is a different kind of speed.
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post Apr 26 2022, 04:09 AM

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QUOTE(Super2047 @ Apr 25 2022, 09:13 PM)
The main reason of mental health sickness is wrong thinking pattern. Medication can control the sickness symptoms, but to solve it permanently, a person need to correct their thinking pattern. Spiritual teaching in Buddhism can rectify this.
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personally see way too many cases where symptoms is there for their entire life, and need to continue on meds.

while these group of people have my sympathy, i doubt mental sickness can be cure permanently. there is no cure.
attempt to heal them via spiritually is best to be use as side method, main method still is psychotherapy + meds.

again, bear in mind these are just treatment , not cure.

so best case scenario is , lesser symptoms, but need to be on meds.
or
lesser symptoms , not on meds, but from time to time will go wild again.

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post Apr 26 2022, 07:56 PM

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QUOTE(BrookLes @ Apr 26 2022, 07:12 AM)
You have not seen someone who has actual NPDs

Those people can just stab you from behind and you dun even know why they did that.

Actually go and youtube NPD, its much more complicated then you think.

Go and study the terms gaslighting and flying monkeys
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I have no interest in going too deep and detail into these cuz I ain't expert and im not acting like I'm one.

I meet these people in real life, be it npds, or people that is terrible at gaslighting, but still doing it, or disgusting people that you call flying monkey. I know cuz they match all the symptoms when read about it, just to justify their doings, and make some sense out of these nonsense.

My point is, mental and crazy people are everywhere, might even be some one that sleep beside you. They are all around us.

Worst is after covid just bring us more of these people, great.

I don't care these are true sickness or just pure behaviour, the fact that encountering them dry up my kindness and sympathy to these "special people", and now I choose to stay away from these people like a plague.

 

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