Hi all, wanna ask if anybody knows if this is a ED or PE.

My hub & I just got married. During the intimacy, our foreplay can go up to about 20-30 mins. His stick can get hard easily whenever I stroke it, Bj or we kiss.

The problem is maintaining the hardness. Whenever want to insert time, his stick will become soft & cannot insert d. Then i have to give bj / stroke it fast to make it hard again. Then when wanna insert again, become soft again.

At time he can maintain the hardness, but will come after in out for 1 min. Cannot change position, if change/try different position, will become soft again.

He can come quite fast when I bj him or stroke it fast. Just cannot insert. It can be quite frustrating because I have to DIY when he’s not around to satisfy myself.

Does it sounds like ED or just PE? I asked him if he’s anxious, he said he’s not anxious at all, quite chill. But why though?

Most likely will discuss & see a urologist. In his 30s, very sedentary lifestyle. We both very caught up & emerged with own work, usually just 1-2 a week & unprotected.

Coming within 1 min of in/out is too fast isn’t? Not too sure.