When my mother was suddenly fainted at home..Lucky my father and bro can help hold her up. If I'm alone I can't.

Even in hospital one time I'm alone with my mum I need to help her hold the drip and bring her to toilet. It's so troublesome and if two ppl it will be better as she also need to sit on wheelchair. (Lucky my father help also)

And another time suddenly my father call me say doc need him go to hospital at fast as my father suspected of having heart attack. I was trembling and lucky I got my bro driving us to go. Like other say got sibling can share the cost and someone to talk to.

Like other say even if you want second also see gods will. I'm still can't even get first baby. Talk to your wife and sort it .