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 My wife wants a second kid, but I’m not keen., What’s the best way to resolve this?

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kinnasai
post May 24 2022, 05:17 PM

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QUOTE(maxmahen87 @ Mar 23 2022, 11:09 PM)
Im not going to have children so that they can take care of me in the future, they are not my retirement plan. I will have everything sorted for myself and my wife (retirement and medical).
I will provide the best for my kid. What she does with it and becomes in the future, that's her choice.
We bring them to this world, it's unfair to put the burden on them in the future - regardless of the number of children I will have.
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Bro, can just make thing simple. Do you love your daughter now? Do you think you are lucky to have your daughter now? If yes, having another 1 will only be better and double your happiness. Same goes to your wife and your daughter.

All those tactics played by wife, emotional blackmailed thingy.. this is not the real problem for your to have another kid, it's another set of problem, need to deal separately with your wife.

If you are financial affordable, why not? Just need to spend a little bit more time for another kid, but you will have more ppl to love and loves you in your family.

 

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