Honestly if you ask me, i would say they are pretty good. IN USUAL situation, Property agent will not behave too strict unless something triggered them.
1. Ban and dont allow one my property agent from entering the building, when i ask for reason, they refuse to give and says it is private and confidential.
==> Engaging too many agents is possible but when any of them against the rules / even created issue here (regardless which units as property agent does not only work for your unit), Property Management Agent has the right to "BLOCK" anyone from coming in to the strata property. This is common sense.
2. Everyone who want to enter have to submit particulars 1 day in advance, including potential tenants coming for viewing (who want to go through all the trouble for viewing??? how am i going to get my tenants?)
==> 1 day in advance, consider ok. Most strata properties allows visitor to come in anytime while on the spot to confirm this with the unit owner if they are expecting anyone to their unit or not. This is VISITOR. FOR VIEWING PURPOSES, this depends on their sense of management. If they feel something is amiss or suspicious, they may do so as in order to control all the walk in people. You may think, just walk in potential tenant only, why need to be difficult ? Bear in mind, they are counted as outsider, if anything happens, or anything missing in between, who will have to be checked first while all these while, nothing is wrong in the environment ? Make sense right ?
3. If you owe them money, even if its is only RM1 or 10 cents for more than 14 days, they will deactivate your access card and charge RM50 to reactivate it.
==> This is good in order to control the defaulter. i would say good job. Even 1 cent, you will be counted as defaulter and UNABLE to vote in the upcoming EGM / AGM. Upon own mistake, then have to bear with the "punishment" by paying the fine lo... something like, people forgotten to pay for the parking fee even just for 1 minute, the local authority / police traffic will still issue saman.
4. I request to speak to the residence committee regarding all these, but they just ignore my request.
==> This may be not appropriate... You can just write in but based on your statement, i guess this would be a commotion situation where owner shouted in the office demanding this / that... What i can advise, just write in simple and friendly email depicting all your concern, im sure the management agent will forward the email to the jmc and they will be the one to decide. You have to understand, OWNERS appointed JMC to represent them in managing the Strata property. JMC hires Property Management Agent to assist and perform the execution of the whole process in managing the overall strata property. In usual situation, Property Management Agent receives / executes the mission / vision set by fellow JMC but on certain cases, Good Property Management Agent is not that stupid to do stupid things. They should have Boveap license in this field. Mark my word, make a sensible and polite email on your request and wait for their response is the best thing to do. The more lansi you are, the less reply you will going to receive.
5. Deny me entry to the last AGM saying the name i use in the form is not the same as in the owner list, even though i use that name in all my email with them and the name field in the form doesnt indicate it must be same as owner record.
==> Owner has to make sure the name is registered properly in their system. Before EGM / AGM, they should have posted the memo out indicating if you are eligible to attend or not. When registering on the EGM / AGM day itself, they will need to check your NRIC before allowing you to attend. What happen when the actual name of the owner is ALI but the attendee that day carries the name of ALLI. you cant assume they are the same person as the unit's owner and allow outsider to attend right ? Clearly this is your mistake for overlooking this matter. To make things right, check back the actual name OR better still send them a copy of your snp that carries your ACTUAL name as per NRIC and ask them to update in their system. Once they have updated, your next SOA will indicate the actual name as per your nric lo.. issue settled.
6. My tenant throw some cupboard boxes near the bin and they issue fine RM200 and cancel all my access card, so need to pay for new access card and the fine. The fine is just so unreasonable for such offense, not to mention why the need to cancel access card?
==> You need to check back your House rules on that as i believe this is covered. Who perform / create the houserules ? This is agreed upon the creation of the JMB or MC or by the developer from the 1st day of your strata property lo. if there is not indication of such amount, im sure some JMC agreed upon such fine stated in their minutes of meeting. Check with them again.
So what are my options?
1. Wait for next AGM and try to propose a change the company managing the building management office? I also dont know if the residence committees are aware of all this or they just dont care.
==> A good Property Management Agent is hard to find. Just because you dont like them for jeopardizing or giving you all the hassle, yes, you still have the right / chance to kick them out. You can bring this up on the upcoming EGM / AGM by raising the motion to change a new vendor in this situation. Get this motion to be voted OR better still, volunteer yourselves in the upcoming EGM / AGM as the JMC and then propose to your fellow JMC members to change the PMA. Reminder again, good PMA is hard to find. If you manage to find the PMA that suits and doesnt complaint on all the wrongdoing, they are merely earning monthly salary without progressing, eventually your strata property will lose attraction and dilapidated.
2. Get a lawyer? but what can the lawyer do? not the mention the cost will be more than its worth?
==> Unless you have a good ground, proceed on this but from your statement, it seems most of them are owner mistake. you need to repent else, just pray the strata property wont go down like some strata places found in Kepong

3. Or just sell the bloody apartment and be done with it?
==> Same thing, regardless where you are, if the attitude and the understanding of strata is not there, you will repeat the same mistake. Get the common understanding on the matter and i believe you will be fine

There is no PMA / Guard in the world that like to kacau owner Unless they have been triggered.
Cheers