just looking at some of the advice laid out for ts here
you better not listen to mine either for am in no position to give any

what i can summarize is that there's this pull factor which is the main reason it's lasted this long
also
since it's approx 7 years - it's also the timing when the "fed-up" between partners surface
most cases there's a 3rd party lurking around but since there's no mention of this.....

THIS RELATIONSHIP BOLEH JALAN ONE

you both already put both your feet in already, just a matter of sorting out her anger, can fix one as long as the fire between both is still warming your hearts and not burning the house down