Last time a made a call to gov office and asked to put me thru to cik xxxxx, just to make thing more neutral, but the guy who answered the call said she is puan bukan cik, nanti panggil dia puan xxxx.
I was like,ok , is it really matter to differentiate woman according to her marital status.
It just a salutation, why once call cik ,other guy can woo her?