Hi Doctor, thought not qualified at your salary bracket yet but it's rare as father will bring kids to clinic.

So probably it's time to take some pics / videos on how you manage the kids and home. Just put it in google photos or occasionally sent to your family group. For evidence backup purpose la.

Ask your wife whether can she change working place. That's environment probably toxic and they're comparing each spouse capabilities. Maybe works at your place if that's possible but different room/place. At least you could spend time for lunch and back home together.