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 Need a little marriage advice, Wife is asking for monthly allowance

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post Jun 12 2021, 05:24 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 11:12 AM)
Hello everyone,

Just a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.

We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".

I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.

Am I the asshole?
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Yes. A bit asshole.
I contributing 70% to my wife. And I still can do investment for my son education like you do.

But still, different family/people has their own path. My methods might not works for you but it’s good to have different point of views.

Pamper your wife abit will make your life easier. Cheers.

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