is your wife and you have a very big age gap? just asking.

anyhow , your wife spending 5k per month is insane
i bet my bottom that she's asking for that 5k from you is due to more budget for her spending habit only.

so if you ask me no, aint no 5k for her unless she explain how she spend it, and with valid reason why she need another 5k, not just because her friends husband is doing such.

LOL i like the way how you implying things.
slightly different than yours, i was thinking the possibility that TS's wife might be paying the parking fee for that car, who knows.

nowadays now just men can do such thing , woman can do such as well.
especially when woman have the spending power, and A LOT of unsatisfactory toward their own car.

in this case , the bad person seems to be the wife , no ?
what is your point to TS case actually ?

i not sure why you view it that way, but i believe not everyone is "blaming everything to the wife".
the only reason that seems like what is happening here is because the wife is not doing her part (as per TS).
instead she asking for more pocket money, like, a lot of pocket money, just because the husband is earning more, and her friends husband is doing so.
at my opinion this is unreasonable. hence i believe this is the reason why overall support stand at TS side.

but lets not forget this is one sided story, no one know what is the wife side story.
so yeah, let continue the discussion as per what the TS told us.

and no, not ALL female is hard to remarry, especially if that female herself is an excellent person.
the same to male, no such thing as "easily marry again" if that male is a turd.
Some men even prefer divorced woman, just incase you did not know this.