Jun 12 2021, 11:29 PM
QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 11:12 AM)
Hello everyone,
Just a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.
We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".
I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.
Am I the asshole?
Bro, Just a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.
We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".
I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.
Am I the asshole?
I earn less than you but I paid for everything in the household except loan payment for my wife car and I still give my wife fix pocket money every month.
Your income quite high and from my opinion 2.5K for her per month looks reasonable although I must admit that women tend to spend their money for unnecessary things like handbag, shoes etc.
For me I learnt the lesson and now under declare my bonus or side income. Need to be frugal in case something bad happened in future.
Quote
0.0164sec
0.88
6 queries
GZIP Disabled